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JoeDaBro
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15 Apr 2015, 12:18 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I'm cold, "weird" and ugly (no muscle, veiny and bony hands, pale skin, short)

Date wierd and/or ugly girls. Inner beauty. Uh... [insert funny post ending here].
Also, you're on an autism forum.



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15 Apr 2015, 5:46 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
It's obvious no girl is ever gonna like me I'm cold, "weird" and ugly (no muscle, veiny and bony hands, pale skin, short)


Yes! I completely agree.... at least with that attitude.

Now for a quick reality check statistically there is some who will not only like you, but whom you will like as well. The reality is you have to go where girls happen to be not just in school. I propose some type of extracurricular how do you like theater? (yes i know its challenging (especially with the social interaction part) but girls do not just fall out of the sky. I know it is quite a pain...) Also, things like theater though socially exhausting do increase your social boundaries increase your capability in interacting with Neuro-Typicals. Which i might add is crucial because you do not just get into a relationship and stop. It (once again to my great disdain) requires constant effort and input.

Post Scriptum

I go to an all boys school (which makes it substantially harder to do what i just suggested) so if I can do it (with the same diagnosis as you) you can definitely do it too.



the-comander
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24 May 2015, 5:23 pm

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I'm cold, "weird" and ugly (no muscle, veiny and bony hands, pale skin, short)

i had similar ideas when i was your age. i think i kind of f****d myself over with that.



Dylanperr
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25 Dec 2019, 8:34 pm

Theres nothing wrong about being weird.



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15 Jan 2020, 7:36 am

I not care what man a looks like or if he have money so long as he is kind



Dylanperr
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19 Jan 2020, 12:33 am

DailyPoutine1 wrote:
I'm cold, "weird" and ugly (no muscle, veiny and bony hands, pale skin, short)

There nothing wrong with that.



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24 Jan 2020, 8:17 pm

The world contains seven billion precious lil "people"

About half are female

Different females like different things

Plenty of men that are "wierd," and "ugly" are married. Often to wierd and ugly spouses

Pattern recognition gone awry

Don't get your hopes up

But don't assume just because thus far something didn't happen, it never will



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04 May 2020, 7:53 pm

I feel that way too, but don't give up. Someone might actually have a crush on you, or might feel the same as you. It may be hard to believe, but there are people out there like you who are also like you who ended up with someone. Try getting to know some girls and develop a friendship. Maybe that will help.