Users of WP, let us just stop with these terms and conversations concerning them.
They, and the characters they represent, serve no constructive purpose and are not conducive to growing socially, or bringing the sexes closer together. Rather, they have a tendency to further isolate already lonely individuals, polarizing the sexes, and reduce the odds of forming healthy relationships, by reinforcing negative perceptions, and cultivating resentment and feelings of hostility.
If you are on this website, then chances are, it's because you have an autistic spectrum disorder, and as such, you have marked impairment in social development[/u][/b]. This puts us in a class far removed from the general populace, and thus, in most instances, the applicability of the terms in the subject.
Rather than spend your time fixating on them, or trying to find an identity within them, you should be spending your time working on improving your social skills and interpersonal skills in general, and working with a counselor to rid yourself of any frustration, resentments, or bitterness against others and/or the opposite sex, which has formed as a by product of being different and socially deficient, yet having a need for social interactions.