The real reason why you aren't hit on much by women.

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That's not true at all. Girls can be forever alones too.

But usually because none of their suitors is up to snuff

As if ...

If he only wanted women for sex, why did he not get a prostitute? He certainly had the money for it.
It sounds more like he wanted acceptance, affection, and sex. I don't know why he decided to kill people and then himself. That's not going to help him get what he wants. He could have gone to a brothel in Nevada for sex.

Sociopaths tend to be very aware of how others feel and what they think, except they feel no sympathy for them, and they are not very affected by their own emotions. Elliot Rodger was obviously very affected by his feelings of loneliness, rejection, and depression. Sociopaths can find a relationship very easily. Elliot Rodger could not figure out how to get a relationship.

A person who has a decent "Theory of Mind" means that they are good at figuring out what a person is feeling and thinking. A lot of this is based on reading non-verbal cues, what they are saying, what they are doing, making assumptions based on all of these things in a collaboration of multiple sensory stimuli with instinct alone.

People with ASD have varying degrees of "Mind Blindness", which means you have poor "Theory of Mind" in that you can't instinctively figure out how others feel or what they are thinking. Some people with ASD are able to develop a second nature "Theory of Mind" by doing non-verbal research, semantics and pragmatics training, and building tolerance to sensory overload.

I don't understand how suicide would solve anything. I don't think it would please anyone if you committed suicide.

Also, I didn't feel like you answered the first question cupidspider asked, which I was really curious about.

"What, exactly, do the women you refuse to interact with and claim to hate expect of you?"

I'm curious about this. May you please answer this question? Thank you.

I don't think anyone could have explained that any better. You're showing your intelligence!

Thank you.

paying off sex and getting willing sex are different things. he likely wanted women to give him sex. same reason guys who do lots of one night stands just don't go to prostitutes.

one less worthless burdon guy trying to be with them and wasting their time and breathing in their air i suspect

they want a man with a decent job, nice car, own place. doesn't show emotions, firt, skinny, strong, handsome, etc.

i don't refuse to interact with them, they refuse to interact with me. I dislike them not hate. I don't hate any women. sometimes I may start to feel like it and that upsets me. i think maybe I should have been born female. or maybe if I was raised by men instead of women. I have too many female traits, along with being born defective which means I can't get a decent paying job or a job at all as many of them don't consider anything paying less then 20 an hour a job at all.

why? so I can go more crazy with 0 human contact

If you are really a Christian you should stop talking about killing yourself. Not only it is egoistical, it would also send you to hell according to your own beliefs. But perhaps you think hell is better.

the lord forgives or everyone is going to hell, as everyone sins. Jesus died on the cross to forgive us. so I would hope upon reaching the gates I would be forgiven. I don't think robin Williams went to hell.

also thats not a quote of mine.

Maybe some prostitutes like their job. Maybe sometimes they enjoy having sex and getting paid for it.
It does seem a lot more interesting to be accepted without having to pay.

But, if what you say is true... job, car, owns a place.
Everyone wants something, and if they can get more, why would they settle for less?

Desire is subjective.
Some people don't care about those things, they have other priorities.
Maybe because they feel that they don't need any of it.



Are you sure? How many women do you know really well?
My ex girlfriend liked me for a few years, and I was scrawny back then, had no job, no car, and lived with my family.



The words dislike and hatred mean the same thing, and they do not seem like the right words for what you are feeling.
I think what you are feeling is envy.

I feel envious about women all the time, and it's a horrible feeling.
But, I love women (not all of them, only the ones I consider to be my type, I'm quite picky).

What exactly is happening when you interact with them?
And, what do you mean when you say that they refuse to interact with you?

woman enjoying sex and getting paid for isn't the same as woman enjoying sex and giving it freely. and they all pretend to enjoy it so you'll never know for sure. i want emotional connected sex. you cant get that from a prostitute.

againt they list this on their profiles/ads., talk about it openly at work, and complain about t on other sites.
you essentially are the dating equivalent of winning the lottery, it happens but its hardly the majority. I would not run you life under the plan of winning the lottery.
also why did it end did she grow tired of you never getting a job, car and house. some women who have such standards will get with men thinking surely they'll "grow up" and out of it, but when they realize what they got into is what they get forever they bail. one should really go into relationships without wanting to change people. if you date a fat chick don't' expect her to get skinny. I'd rather just accept people for how they are, rather then what I hope they could be.
but Im more a here and now person.

also going guess you met her through family or friends and not a dating site? i think some of these women if they gave men a chance might fall in love and then not care about those things anymore. as so many women say they won't leave their guy if he lost those. so they love him, but these women wont' even give it a shot.

no dislike and hate are different. dislike coco pebbles. so you don't eat cocopebbles, hate them and you try to destroy them all and talk others into destroying them too.

I hate terrorist. I hate rapists, I hate dictators, I don't hate these women.
the feeling of hate is super strong. I do not hate many people. I kind almost hate obama.


I don't interact with them. I'm not allowed to. they don't allow me to even talk to them. they are too good and I am too worthless to even bother with saying hi or a simple conversation. suppose getting talking to such men like me is just a burden and waste of their time. I imagine they'd rather we all died off. mean were not real men or really humans so who cares right?

its the same as if a store had a no black people sign out front. the store is refusing ot interact with black people. well they have a no worthless sub human sign on their profile.
they only want real men.

True, there would be no feelings of love or admiration with a prostitute, it would feel very superficial.

The first time she left me, it was because I was unable to get a job.
She came back years later, and left again after around one year for reasons unknown.

I met her in high school. I tried to talk with her a few times, and she was very shy and said nothing back to me.
I asked for her phone number, and she gave it to me. I called her, and asked if she wanted to hang out.

Hate is a word meaning strong dislike. Dislike means a small amount of hatred.
Same meaning, different intensity.

Resentful:
Feeling or expressing bitterness or indignation (anger, annoyance) at having been treated unfairly.
Synonymous with the word Envious.

They don't allow you to interact with them? Do you talk to them?
What exactly are they doing when they do not allow you to talk with them?

not going to argue with you over word meanings, if dislike and hate were the same meaning we wouldn't have them both we would just have one. by your logic you either love everyone and everything or hate anything and everything.
you can not like something which is to dislike but not hate it. like I don't like people who smoke. but i don't hate them.

they say don't message me if you don't have ________________.
if I message them despite this 1. they will just ignore me. 2. that would be disrespecting them. its the same as if a woman told you to not follow her but you did anyways.

I don't know how I could have been clearer. they only want "real men" evidently I'm not a man and as I'm not a woman I must be non human.

sorry she left you.