22 Jul 2015, 11:40 am
22 Jul 2015, 1:28 pm
The_Face_of_Boo
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23 Jul 2015, 6:44 am
23 Jul 2015, 6:48 am
OP, you'd be pretty safe to ask her out on a date 
she likes you!
But if you're still worried just go somewhere as friends. Obviously don't say "as friends" or anything like that, but if it helps you approach this easier then think of it in that light, as if nothing has changed.
Good luck!
24 Jul 2015, 3:18 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You are the most confusing WP member, rdos.
You preach that we should only date "Neurodiverse" people, yet the dating advices you preach are pretty much NTish.
You preach that we should only date "Neurodiverse" people, yet the dating advices you preach are pretty much NTish.
I forgot that people interpret "flirting" in different ways. I meant using eye contact and looking a lot at her from time to time, which is NOT NTish at all. I didn't mean fake compliments or anything like that.
24 Jul 2015, 3:21 am
TheSpectrum wrote:
OP, you'd be pretty safe to ask her out on a date she likes you!
But if you're still worried just go somewhere as friends. Obviously don't say "as friends" or anything like that, but if it helps you approach this easier then think of it in that light, as if nothing has changed.
she likes you!But if you're still worried just go somewhere as friends. Obviously don't say "as friends" or anything like that, but if it helps you approach this easier then think of it in that light, as if nothing has changed.
Yeah, that's kind of a good idea. Or even more formal, like a business lunch with a potential customer. I use a similar tactic when asking girls for a dance, because if I think of it in a romantic way, I wouldn't dare to ask for a dance, but if it is more like a fun thing to do, I have no problem with it.
