Would a non-Muslim girl EVER like a Muslim guy?

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27 Sep 2015, 7:00 pm

I'm 16, and a guy, and my friend is 17 and a girl, and she's a neo-pagan, while I'm Muslim.... I've been thinking about her romantically for awhile, but I feel like she may consider me a bore, since I would never drink, never gamble, never be alone with her, and never have sex with her outside of marriage.... would she EVER like me?



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27 Sep 2015, 7:04 pm

Answering your question, it's definitely possible. But honestly, you're giving off a very desperate vibe, at least on this site. Women can sniff out desperation a mile away, and they do their best to avoid guys who exhibit desperate traits. I'd say it'd be in your best interest to stop obsessing over women and develop yourself more.



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27 Sep 2015, 7:09 pm

How many more threads are you going to start on this topic?



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27 Sep 2015, 7:12 pm

If she's into Wicca and stuff like that then very doubtful. They're pretty pro womens rights if I've heard correctly, which doesn't meld with Islam very well.



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28 Sep 2015, 12:47 am

Afew years before me my girlfriend had a very serious online relationship with a Muslim & she used to be Catholic & is now a Pantheist. They broke up because he was very controlling & pushing his values & other things on her like wanting her to move to his country & never let her see her family again.


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28 Sep 2015, 4:59 pm

MonsterCrack wrote:
I'm 16, and a guy, and my friend is 17 and a girl, and she's a neo-pagan, while I'm Muslim.... I've been thinking about her romantically for awhile, but I feel like she may consider me a bore, since I would never drink, never gamble, never be alone with her, and never have sex with her outside of marriage.... would she EVER like me?


The odds are stacked against you, my friend. That said, I obviously don't know either of you so we're working on guesses and limited information here. Basically, if her interests conflict with yours, like if she is really into drinking, romantic time alone with a BF, wants to be romantically-involved with her partner, maybe she likes to sneak into the casino, well... in any of those cases there's not much in it for her so she probably won't go for it.

Basically, you're 16, so no matter how in love you end up being with pretty much anybody, you're probably going to grow out of it and end up with someone else later down the line. Enjoy teenage romance as much as you're allowed but, if you can, try to see it as a learning experience and not as trying to find a serious partner for life.