blooiejagwa wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
My friend has the knack of getting an entire life story out of someone she's just met.
It's pretty amazing.
I've picked up on some of her skills so tried it on a guy while I was waiting at the fish and chip shop, and it worked, although as usual I can only pick up on about 75% of what's said.
Ooh do you have tips? I love finding out ppl’s life stories.
It’s a skill probably better observed than explained though
She usually starts by making some smartarse comment, usually on what they're doing. (This is an Australian custom though, that might not translate to other countries)
Then she asks if they're local.
If they say no she asks where they're from > how long have you been here > what brought you here? Etc
If they say yes it's did you grow up here > what area > what do you do > have you always done that etc
She asks lots of questions but it doesn't seem like an interegation, they seem happy to tell her everything.
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It's like I'm sleepwalking