Imagine a 30 year old male dating a 19 year old female...
graceksjp
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Yeah but I find it hard to believe that you can have like a long relationship and never have sex.
At least, not with people my age. (thats like 90% of girl talk, and 99% of locker talk) I mean, Ive had plenty of guys ask for sex before dating, as well as a few who decided to skip the 'ask' step completely.
Personally, little to no sex sounds fine to me. But a good half or more of my friends breakups are because of sex (or lack thereof) so it just doesnt seem very likely
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I can imagine a very specific 19 year old this 34 year old would love to date.
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I am considered unqualified for even women my age (30). I've actually been pressured to date elderly women and have even had women old enough to be my great grandmother flirt on me instead of women my age. I really should just go ahead and kill myself since all I have to look forward to is suffering until I get cremated.
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That's how I see it.
Parents and grandparents usually tell their daughters to not date men like me. If one brought me homed they’d try to talk her into leaving me. I’ve seen and heard how they view men like me.
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People lie to look civil.
They don’t actually mean what they say.
Dishonesty is the real social lubricant.
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I realize something that makes me feel like the odds were already against me. My male friends had no sisters my age (They were either older or much younger or they had no sisters at all) nor did they have female cousins or didn't introduce me to them at all if they did, the people my parents associated with generally didn't have daughters my age, and even my therapist told me she wishes she could've had daughters or nieces that she could've introduced me to. My developmental years were extremely lacking in interaction with the opposite sex. Even today, it's still hard for me to interact with women because most women in my area behave very "girly" in that they only know about shopping at Macy's, gossiping about other women, reading romance novels, watching sappy drama TV shows, listening to Kelly Clarkson or Taylor Swift, and going to church. I don't really encounter many women who like science fiction, listen to music that isn't Top 40, play video games that aren't Candy Crush, and are non-religious or atleast not brainwashed by Bible Belt Christianity.
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That's how I see it.
That's how I see it.
Parents and grandparents usually tell their daughters to not date men like me. If one brought me homed they’d try to talk her into leaving me. I’ve seen and heard how they view men like me.
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Being nice is considered homosexual by women in the Bible Belt while calling them "Hoe ass b***h/slut!" and punching them is considered heterosexual. This is especially prominent in the hip-hop/ghetto culture in my area.
One of my co-workers told me she was surprised I didn't shoot up a school because I was bullied.
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As I've gotten older, my perception is that younger people sometimes want to be serious in a long term relationship, but usually they hit a wall as they reach their mid twenties where they really start to think about how that's all they've experienced and time is running out, so they break it off. The 30 year old has something to lose here, too.
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I realize something that makes me feel like the odds were already against me. My male friends had no sisters my age (They were either older or much younger or they had no sisters at all) nor did they have female cousins or didn't introduce me to them at all if they did, the people my parents associated with generally didn't have daughters my age, and even my therapist told me she wishes she could've had daughters or nieces that she could've introduced me to. My developmental years were extremely lacking in interaction with the opposite sex. Even today, it's still hard for me to interact with women because most women in my area behave very "girly" in that they only know about shopping at Macy's, gossiping about other women, reading romance novels, watching sappy drama TV shows, listening to Kelly Clarkson or Taylor Swift, and going to church. I don't really encounter many women who like science fiction, listen to music that isn't Top 40, play video games that aren't Candy Crush, and are non-religious or atleast not brainwashed by Bible Belt Christianity.
Oh you're like me, you want someone you can share your interests with.
Most people date and marry who they are attracted to, not who they relate to.
I think my more masculine interests are a disadvantage when trying to date. I dont make men feel masculine enough because I'm too like them even though I dress in feminine clothes.
I think I confuse them.
I realize something that makes me feel like the odds were already against me. My male friends had no sisters my age (They were either older or much younger or they had no sisters at all) nor did they have female cousins or didn't introduce me to them at all if they did, the people my parents associated with generally didn't have daughters my age, and even my therapist told me she wishes she could've had daughters or nieces that she could've introduced me to. My developmental years were extremely lacking in interaction with the opposite sex. Even today, it's still hard for me to interact with women because most women in my area behave very "girly" in that they only know about shopping at Macy's, gossiping about other women, reading romance novels, watching sappy drama TV shows, listening to Kelly Clarkson or Taylor Swift, and going to church. I don't really encounter many women who like science fiction, listen to music that isn't Top 40, play video games that aren't Candy Crush, and are non-religious or atleast not brainwashed by Bible Belt Christianity.
Oh you're like me, you want someone you can share your interests with.
Most people date and marry who they are attracted to, not who they relate to.
I think my more masculine interests are a disadvantage when trying to date. I dont make men feel masculine enough because I'm too like them even though I dress in feminine clothes.
I think I confuse them.
Damn right I do.
My older brother scoffed at me for wanting that and only saw his girlfriends as "cum dumpsters". He's now wishing he could trade places with me.
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