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The_Face_of_Boo
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07 Nov 2015, 2:15 pm

I am afraid of commitment, very afraid. I dunno why and when that started.

But whenever I feel there's a potential of long term or when a girl hinting to want something serious, I vanish....



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07 Nov 2015, 4:40 pm

I confess that I have loved men secretly.


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07 Nov 2015, 5:13 pm

I confess....there's at least some Wolfman in me.



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07 Nov 2015, 5:16 pm

I confess ..I'm..@#$$%@**..


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07 Nov 2015, 7:43 pm

Drawyer wrote:
I confess ..I'm..@#$$%@**..



A what?



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07 Nov 2015, 8:29 pm

I confess I broke up with my first GF because family issues got in the way, so these issues had to be attended to. These issues have been resolved.


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07 Nov 2015, 9:36 pm

sly279 wrote:
Drawyer wrote:
I confess ..I'm..@#$$%@**..


A what?


Me too


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07 Nov 2015, 11:08 pm

cberg wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Drawyer wrote:
I confess ..I'm..@#$$%@**..
A what?
Me too
I am on my way to you..
you my love
you my half
you my life
you my everything..


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08 Nov 2015, 1:31 am

I'm confused



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08 Nov 2015, 3:03 am

I confess, that I panic when a woman touches me.



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08 Nov 2015, 3:38 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
But whenever I feel there's a potential of long term or when a girl hinting to want something serious, I vanish....


Is that because you don't think a conventional relationship would work? If that is that case I can relate. It is stopped me perusing relationships, becuase I don't know it would work.



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08 Nov 2015, 4:21 pm

0_equals_true wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
But whenever I feel there's a potential of long term or when a girl hinting to want something serious, I vanish....


Is that because you don't think a conventional relationship would work? If that is that case I can relate. It is stopped me perusing relationships, becuase I don't know it would work.


Yeah, probably due to my zero experience in conventional relationships (only had hookups/fwb).



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05 Jul 2018, 8:31 am

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05 Jul 2018, 1:56 pm

I confess I feel no remorse for the way I’ve treated any women in my life.

Boo, I don’t believe your fear is at all irrational considering the current deal on the table.


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05 Jul 2018, 2:04 pm

Shinku Tora wrote:
I confess I feel no remorse for the way I’ve treated any women in my life.

Boo, I don’t believe your fear is at all irrational considering the current deal on the table.

Oh my, you must be a true baddass.

By the way Boo has had a girlfriend for more than a year.



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05 Jul 2018, 2:37 pm

I don't think I'm afraid of commitment, per say, but whenever someone's interested in dating (or I get the sense that they are) I disappear. Well, not typically in a rude/ghosting way, more like limiting communication and dialing it back until it just tapers off and fades away. The vast majority of the time I'm not even remotely interested in dating the person and it was simply a hookup for both of us but then they decided to try to pursue dating me. It's very, very, rare that someone is interested in dating me that I have even the slightest bit of interest in - hence the thread I started about that one recently.

I don't think it's commitment I'm against. I've done a lot of things in life that require commitment & follow through. It's more just not thinking it'd be appropriate for someone like me to be in a relationship in the first place, so, easiest to just avoid them entirely. So far that hasn't exactly worked out terribly for my sex life.

I suppose that's another reason to avoid relationships - sex with the same person forever. Life would be very different if that ever happened. I'm guessing, but I think that's a lot of guys' objection to commitment.. settling for one-gina for the rest of their lives must be a scary thought.


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