Do you think women have it easier getting a relationship?

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Your language is a big turn off dude.. Stop calling women b*****s and using the F word in every damn sentence and you just may get somewhere.

Is that why some guys I've dated lost interest in me....and a couple basically just used me for sex, with me being too stupid to see it right up front. Yes that makes me feel so very powerful over the male sex....or the time a much older 'college' student like in his 40s with a kid my first year earned my trust and then tried to pressure me to have sex at one point even seemed to try and push me into their bedroom. Yes as an autistic female I feel I've always had so much power.....not.

And what is with your fixation on obesity really?

Wrong. I don't even call women b*****s irl and don't cuss that much irl and i'm getting no p****.

I'm actually friendly irl, I just come to WP to rant so of course I come off as an as*hole.

The reason why i'm getting no chicks is because I can't talk to them irl because of my social anxiety. It friggin sucks!

Darkphantomx1's bitterness that all women apparently have the sense to give him a wide berth because he so clearly hates himself and hates women comes out as seething at the overweight.

Seething anger and self-loathing are total turnoffs.

Didn't even give me time to edit the post before you quoted. I removed the obesity part. Good job friggin good job.

Oh well i'm already considered an as*hole to most of you here. I tend to not sugar code my words, I speak how I feel.

Last edited by darkphantomx1 on 19 Nov 2015, 11:42 am, edited 1 time in total.

Well even if you don't cuss and call women b*****s all the time...perhaps that you still somehow give the impression you view girls as 'b***s'. Also I know I know it only ever works for females and a male has never once found anyone this way ...but you could try the internet for approaching women. Though if you come off as someone just seeking p**** no girls serious about a relationship are going to be receptive.

How is anyone supposed to know if you intend to edit something, and thus be able to give you time to do so. Once something posts its open for responses.

Bro, have you seen the dtf girls on Tinder?

There's a ton of chicks who just wanna f**k no strings attached.

Women depend on males for hard labor/warring/protections, etc, because none of those things are in the womans power, and thus she has to select for a stronger male, not only does the male have to be stronger than her, the male also has to be stonger than other males otherwise she risks losing her entire family to conflict with another tribe, it has everything to do with biology because she is selecting for fitness in order to provide and protect her family.

And just because you're an exception doesn't mean that it's not the norm, but even then there's still the fact that you might not actually see the selection that you've made for lack of perspective. What happens when there are no more resources to support what you and your boyfriend both love to do? What happens when your conscious see's that there's another male who enjoys those things as well, but who has enough resources to support it?

And I'm not saying that the men actually want love, men are content with average women because average women can at least give sex, which is not to be conflated with love, but hypergamy should not be confused with love either. in the end most relationships boil down to resource exchange.

Well get on Tinder than....if you're looking for those kinds of chicks, problem solved. Just make sure and wear a condom to avoid STDs. But Okcupid for instance has more of a focus on finding relationships I think...though I imagine there are people just looking for sex there to.

They don't sell extra extra large condoms at Walgreens.

Nothing that can fit my 10 inch mammoth.

On average, I think it's about the same. It's just that the kinds of difficulties experienced are generally different, and are strongly influenced by the culture that the person is embedded in. Also, the kind of relationship the person is seeking is relevant. If there is a mismatch between sexes on the most commonly sought type or quality of relationship, then this could lead to people from each gender to perceiving their own difficulties as greater, on average.

Additionally, the difficulty 'balance' may shift with age: I think it is likely that older women tend to experience more difficulty getting into romantic relationships than do men of the same age, and the reverse is likely true among younger people.

Do you believe that having an accurate answer to this question will help people in some way? This is merely to satisfy my own curiosity. It is not a rhetorical question.

Yet none of them will f**k you. Hmmmmm.

Now you are describing more biological things...but what does high social status and being financially well off have to do with the biology of males being typically bigger and stronger, thus being the ones depended on to protect the tribe and provide resources via going and getting them. Though females likely gathered some resources whilst men would likely hunt meat and such.

From what I can tell modern day high social status, financially well of males aren't necessarily....stronger or more able to defend their women from danger...some seem a lot weaker because they don't have to do a lot of strenuous physical activity and the whole clean cut appearance seems to be the opposite of what would attract females as far as biology....wouldn't a more rugged/rough appearance be more inline with the biological need for a guy who could take care of hard labor and defending the tribe?

However keep in mind a lot of reasons the things you mention weren't in womens power....has also been social constructs...so its still not entirely 'biology'.

Also I don't see my boyfriend as something to discard if I see someone more well off with better resources. And if somehow there where no resources for me and my boyfriend to do anything we enjoyed....I guess we'd have to find a way to get some resources wouldn't we? I don't see how abandoning him would help the situation all it would do is make me feel like a piece of crap.

Also that aside what kind of well off guy is going to take a woman off the streets(ending up homeless would be the only way I could see us not having resources to do what we enjoy) who just abandoned her SO specifically to try to find someone more well off....unless they mean to take advantage of a women in an apparently vulnerable situation. Better to stick with someone you know well and care deeply for and work together to improve things....than throw them away on the off chance you can find an easier life with someone else.

Also you make it sound like guys just care if they 'get sex'....but I have heard plenty from the male sex that would imply otherwise. A lot of guys believe it or not are more selective of who they have sex with...and only want to with someone they actually like. But I don't deny there are plenty of guys who might settle for someone they don't really like because at least they get sex....but to me that sounds like a very depressing kind of relationship.

And maybe all you see in relationships is a resource exchange, but for many people there is a lot more feelings and emotion involved...and coming to genuinely care about your S.O always makes it much more complex than a resource exchange. I guess to some their relationships are nothing more than a resource exchange, and those people can have each other.

A woman in the Stone Age required a man for labor/warring/protection. You may have missed that we no longer live in the Stone Age and many a woman has a good job, a house and the option of availing herself of locks, alarm systems, 911, etc. if required.

I have zero interest in any man who'd feel the need to go "warring" on my behalf - it'd demonstrate a lack of impulse control. Leaving the bar with the catcalling moron is appropriate, my BF threatening to hit the guy or (worse) actually hitting him... is an excellent way to get charged with felony assault.

If my boyfriend were to run out of resources, well, I'd fall back on my own, thankyouverymuch - two degrees and a job ensures I've no need for anybody else's money. I do find the men who have no or very low-paying jobs whining that women who worked hard to earn qualifications + good jobs are selfish to be sort of amusing. Particularly the lack of recognition that it might not be about money but rather values .