Cerebral Palsy doesn't mean you're hopeless. Nor does Asperger's.
It just means you are "different" from "normal" people in some ways. You have difficulties which "normal" people do not have to experience.
However, you could, through your well-earned experience, actually have better insight into some things than "normal" people--provided you use your intelligence.
It's actually a positive trait to seem younger than you are.