Well I told her I liked her...

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14 Apr 2016, 5:13 pm

I known this girl for 2 1/2 months from a class. Today class was cancelled because our professor wanted to do mini-interviews to help each our us in the future.

We had time intervals within 20 min of each other so I came early and managed to find her walking out of the prof's office.

She said "Hey" and I told her "I know I showed up at an uncommon time, but I'm here to be honest since I've been beating around the bush for a while."

"I think you're beautiful, intelligent, have cool interests and you're fun to be around. So that's why I've been wanting to spend time with you, to get to know you better."

She gave me a full hug and told me "I think you're super, super(5x) nice and you're very cool to be around as well. My life's been crazy with work but within 3-4 weeks we can hang out when I'm finally free so I'll let you know".

Basically I don't really care if this one is a rejection or "I only see you as a friend". What I did was a step forward from jerking off to porn 4 times a day and recently turning 22 and kissless.

I'm sure I'll have much better luck with other women since I can recall the time I finally told a girl my feelings. Better yet, right now I'm overweight, so once I take my workout seriously for the next 3 months, my success with women would improve a lot.

With good looks and some experience, things should improve tenfold.



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14 Apr 2016, 5:46 pm

That seems like a pretty good attitude to have about it, I think.



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14 Apr 2016, 7:12 pm

Congratulations on telling her! It doesn't sound like a rejection to me, but this is coming from someone with almost no experience who sucks with all things social. Great job on making it this far and good luck.


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14 Apr 2016, 7:39 pm

congradulations



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14 Apr 2016, 8:25 pm

That was really brave!! A girl is gunna be lucky to have you one day



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16 Apr 2016, 7:47 pm

See, you get shot down and realize that it's not that big of a deal, right? Congratulations, you just earned the special password to enter the speak easy called love, that word is: confidence.