Why is there so little info for adults with Asperger's?

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I don't know. I guess they feel that we should have figured things out by now.

I had a hard time even finding someone who will diagnose ASD in adults. Most adults were either diagnosed as children, or never diagnosed. The diagnosed people with ASD who are around my age and older are usually all low-functioning, because Asperger's and high-functioning ASD wasn't well known until I was an older child. So people like me either got misdiagnosed, or went undiagnosed because they managed to find a way to act "normal" and become successful.

So while I think there is a need for specialists who will evaluate adults, there apparently aren't enough people out there looking for answers, at least not where I live.

I need to find a social group in my area for people with Asperger's and ASD, but that would mean moving out of my comfort zone. I'd have to leave the house and socialize with strangers. The very thought makes me anxious. I know that there are at least a couple of them in my area. Maybe even more. But I keep putting it off, even though I have no friends and don't know anyone else with ASD.

It is probably because autism has only been a common diagnosis since the late 1990s/early 2000s.
The children who were diagnosed then are just growing up now.
There will be more focus on adults as they become adults.

I have tried to rectify this with my blog series...

http://www.savagelightstudios.com/warpedlens/?page_id=2

One of the problems I see with public opinion and education only being directed toward children, is people just don't have an expectation of problems older autistic people may have.

It's no fun seeing someone completely losing it, especially if they happen to be very large and strong. In our area it seems police have not received proper training and many police, when encountering an older person, who they will later call violent, will often resort to deadly force. This is not an isolated incident and happens in all parts of the country.

Perhaps if the public were educated by the media these terrible incidents would be controlled.

This MUST happen.

It may be because kids are 'cute' and many NT's will see them as 'worth saving'

An autistic adult, who may be big, loud and often upset are just seen as a burden.

For many austistic adults I have met they have had a great deal of trauma and the trauma is now driving behaviour Which makes supporting them even harder. Internalised ableism is a good example of this. I've met many autistic people who won't accept help or support because they don't want to feel different because they still consider being different to be wrong and something negative.

This is part of why identity first acceptance stuff is important. If it's acceptable and understood to be autistic, those who are autistic can access the community more easily. I can access my local town centre because there is an autism hub I can go to when I struggle and know they will understand and help me.

There are also lots of autistic people who have never been diagnosed and never WILL be diagnosed because they've never considered that they might be on the spectrum. These people can act as "confederates" against other autistic people, without meaning to.

A confederate in social psychology is a person who appears to be on one side, but they are actually working for the enemy. Let's say Bob has a regular life, as to work, a wife, kids, but has what a lot of us would say are obvious aspie traits. He says and does awkward things, has narrow interests, has particular sensitivities unique to him and ways of doing things that he will not deviate from. Bob has kids with adult autism diagnoses and grandkids with childhood diagnoses. Bob repeatedly says very negative and hurtful things about what it means to be autistic. His kids and grandkids feel terrible about themselves just from hearing the way he speaks about autism. If he knew and accepted that he was also on the spectrum, maybe he would stop being so hurtful and start being more supportive of his family.

It can work the other way, too. People can have great lives and be great people, never consider they are autistic and never get diagnosed, even though they ARE autistic. Without being "out," people can't look up to them as positive role models.

Because the general public is clueless.