because we are a minority, our lacking ancient tribal instincts puts us in a very disadvantaged vulnerable position socially. These tribal instincts which all neurotypicals are born with in their subconscious level are: group cliques, predatory, xenophobia,...( but they will never admit it,never say it out loud, that's why we get all those nonverbal communication from them). But because of this same reason, it can make us beautiful persons, true altruists.