Are you single, or are you in a relationship?

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siuan
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24 Sep 2007, 9:38 pm

zombie wrote:
Are you single, or are you in a relationship? Another thing have you ever been in a relationship and at what age?
Im just curious about this stuff thats all :roll:


I'm married, 6 years, to another aspie. Got married when I was 23.


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25 Sep 2007, 7:23 am

Still single in tired of it.



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28 Sep 2007, 6:12 am

I'm single. Been in relationships at 12, 15, 16 but around 6 or 7 people i've had relationships with i think :roll: Hate being single though :(


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28 Sep 2007, 6:43 am

Can't even begin to imagine what a
'relationship' is like, at such an early
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29 Sep 2007, 10:54 pm

Single again. Still friends with him, though.


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29 Sep 2007, 10:58 pm

Who_Am_I wrote:
Single again. Still friends with him, though.


I am still friends with my last girlfriend.

Tim


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30 Sep 2007, 4:35 am

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Planes make love...unless you're unable to fly due to crippling fear; but then love beats fear.

The emotional hierarchy is cool….


i was actively a plane for 2 years in highschool.
(luckily, the guy i had a crush on found this amusing, and we did become sort-of friends and went to lots of punk shows together.)


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30 Sep 2007, 4:43 am

i am 90% single right now.

i was married from 19-23. then i would say, maybe 3 "relationships" after that, with "relationship" being defined as physical and emotional and seeing the person almost every day for several months at a time.

i have never been in love with anyone, and doubt my ability to do so, since i am now 28.


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30 Sep 2007, 4:51 am

i_Am_andaJoy wrote:

i have never been in love with anyone, and doubt my ability to do so, since i am now 28.


What does age have anything to do with it?

I guess the potential to find someone decreases maybe... but you are still plenty young.

And I don't think my ability to love will ever decrease...


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30 Sep 2007, 5:04 am

ok i withdraw you can win i withdraw


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30 Sep 2007, 5:06 am

i_Am_andaJoy wrote:
ok i withdraw you can win i withdraw


I'm not arguing, just exploring ideas...

so are you saying, you do have the capacity to love?


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30 Sep 2007, 5:08 am

Age makes one less liable to change.
I think that the majority of people in the
world DON'T experience love as I do.

Wonder about aspies though. Maybe,
'tis close enough.



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30 Sep 2007, 2:59 pm

Im in a relationship this is my 2nd relationship my 1st relationship started when i was 16 and ended after 5 months but ive been with my boyfriend who im with now since july this year.



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30 Sep 2007, 9:20 pm

I've been single all my life and I still am. I used to think that love and relationships is a crock. Why bother?

However, my mentality that relationships are a crock has turned the other way around semi-recently..



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30 Sep 2007, 9:51 pm

been single for 4 yrs ..never been in a true relationship