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LarHadCol
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16 Jul 2016, 8:12 am

I having separated from these group of girls who I was school friends with for three years, I have gotten bored of the idea of friendship, mainly because of how two faced people are and all they do is talk about people. I like talking about ideas.

Now I follow the statergy of just hanging about in the school library , casually talking to everyone,not all the time because I'll be tired but few times.
Nothing personal.

I'm known as the mysterious one which I will take as a compliment .



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16 Jul 2016, 12:13 pm

Yeah, I can kinda relate to your first paragraph. I hang out with my friends out of obligation, but have a hard time paying attention and caring about what they are saying.


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17 Jul 2016, 12:06 pm

Yes during my last year in high school as a super senior or transition year I spent a lot of time in the library too and made friends with the librarians and teachers.



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17 Jul 2016, 7:29 pm

LarHadCol wrote:
I having separated from these group of girls who I was school friends with for three years, I have gotten bored of the idea of friendship, mainly because of how two faced people are and all they do is talk about people. I like talking about ideas.



There's a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt:
"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people."

So at least you've got that going for you :D It does make socializing with small minds tricky, though.