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I've been dating a guy on the spectrum and he comes across very genuine and kind however he is very confusing. We've been intimate twice and it was amazing!! ! Then he lost contact for a while (basically said he felt pressured - don't know why). Just a few days ago we were texting again and planned to meet up Sunday night at my house but then he cancelled on me.

He smsed "Sorry I can't do tonight. I don't know what I'm doing. Take care and I will talk again soon when I'm a bit more stable. Namaste "

He only sms'. He has never once actually rang me to chat!! If this was a neurotypical guy I would tell him to get f****d. I am so confused. I've never dated a guy on the spectrum before.

Ask him.

"a bit more stable"..... what the hell does that mean?

Oh and by the way The_Face_of_Boo - I did ask him and he said "I don't know" which is BS because you know either way if you want to be with someone or not. Then HE SUGGESTED to meet up to talk (which he then cancelled)

He's acting like a man who wants you, but wants you on his terms.

That's my impression.

This is probably the least autistic thing about him, paradoxically.

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