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mariakatosvich
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31 Aug 2016, 5:04 am

so it's not really a good filtering method, ladies - if that's your intention.
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31 Aug 2016, 5:21 am

Sabreclaw wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
Let me tell you the best way to get girls: Lighten up the mood.

Sometimes, we have to leave our philosophical Ivory Tower, and come down and smell the roses.

I know I have to tell myself this sometimes.


There's more to nihilism than just that anyway. But Boo was clearly using it in a derogatory manner, so the real meaning doesn't matter.


I was referring to the real meaning, which is the belief that life is meaningless, I was paralleling this with SpiderPig's belief that any action toward a woman from his part would be meaningless.



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31 Aug 2016, 9:40 am

Her being downhill of you is easiest, followed by on level ground. Uphill is hardest. Obstructions like walls, sticky bushes, etc also negatively affect approachability. :wink:



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31 Aug 2016, 3:38 pm

Body language that says,"Please, talk to me," or ,"Don't go! I'm lonely!"
No Resting b***h Face
Actively striking up convos about common interests

That sort of thing.



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31 Aug 2016, 3:42 pm

Hopper wrote:
I'm treating 'approachable' as distinct from attrractive. If I find a woman attractive, it's axiomatic she'll be approachable. So this is how I judge people - men and women - to be approachable or not.

Mature.
Not stupid.
Not snooty/stuck-up.
A shared sense of humour.
Similar cultural interests.
And plain friendly.

I think much of this would be judged from body language/deportment, and observation of interaction with others.


Where's the like button? :lol: