Do you think this was a bit harsh of her?

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Jamesy
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26 Nov 2016, 10:33 pm

I was in a nightclub literally 4 hours ago and I accidentally bumped into this girl. She then got angry and pushed me hard.


Do you think that was a bit rude of her? Perhaps I held eye contact with her for too long after I walked into her.



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27 Nov 2016, 6:49 am

Well, s**t happens in nightclubs in the middle of the night :-/


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27 Nov 2016, 2:44 pm

That does sound a bit mean, but people are never on their best behaviour in nightclubs. She probably would have pushed the Pope if he'd bumped into her, too.


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27 Nov 2016, 3:32 pm

maybe someone had grabbed her just before and she thought you were doing the same? or maybe she was just having a bad night. At the end of the day i wouldnt dwell on it its clearly her issue.



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28 Nov 2016, 4:00 am

Maybe she thought you bumped into her on purpose so you could feel her or talk to her to make a move on her.


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28 Nov 2016, 4:09 am

nightclubs don't sound like especially friendly places to me. :o



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28 Nov 2016, 9:52 am

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28 Nov 2016, 10:05 am

Move on, buddy. s**t happens.

She was probably quite intoxicated.

Aspies and nightclubs really don't mix.



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28 Nov 2016, 10:33 am

The woman you bumped into accident is probably one of those people should've known better than to react very horribly to you. Believe me, I know what that was like, since it used to be that way when I was in middle school. On my first year one time, there was this kid who I bumped into by accident. Even though I tried to apologize to him, he kept shoving me around and chased me throughout the entire playground during recess. About a year after, at the end of Health Class, there were group of girls chatting right next to the classroom door, blocking it. Even though I tried to tell them to move aside politely, they kept ignoring me and continued to chat, blocking the door. So tried to squeeze through the girls, and I accidently ended up bumping into one of them, and the girl just smacked me hard on my back, and all those girls were like, "What the f--k is wrong with you, a--hole!"

Yeah, those kind of people are just insensitive and rude, and are not worth hanging out with.



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28 Nov 2016, 2:36 pm

I feel it was really stupid and ignorant of her to react this way.

Like I said, she must have been pretty intoxicated.

This sort of thing makes me not want to go into nightclubs/bars/pubs/whatever.



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28 Nov 2016, 3:02 pm

I don't think they've yet invented the kinda nightclub that would have the friendly people i'd wanna interact with.



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28 Nov 2016, 3:03 pm

UncannyDanny wrote:
The woman you bumped into accident is probably one of those people should've known better than to react very horribly to you. Believe me, I know what that was like, since it used to be that way when I was in middle school. On my first year one time, there was this kid who I bumped into by accident. Even though I tried to apologize to him, he kept shoving me around and chased me throughout the entire playground during recess. About a year after, at the end of Health Class, there were group of girls chatting right next to the classroom door, blocking it. Even though I tried to tell them to move aside politely, they kept ignoring me and continued to chat, blocking the door. So tried to squeeze through the girls, and I accidently ended up bumping into one of them, and the girl just smacked me hard on my back, and all those girls were like, "What the f--k is wrong with you, a--hole!"Yeah, those kind of people are just insensitive and rude, and are not worth hanging out with.

IMHO those punk girls were just garden-variety sociopaths. furless upright-walking dogs with manicures.