Do you think this was a bit harsh of her?

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I was in a nightclub literally 4 hours ago and I accidentally bumped into this girl. She then got angry and pushed me hard.


Do you think that was a bit rude of her? Perhaps I held eye contact with her for too long after I walked into her.

Well, s**t happens in nightclubs in the middle of the night :-/

That does sound a bit mean, but people are never on their best behaviour in nightclubs. She probably would have pushed the Pope if he'd bumped into her, too.

maybe someone had grabbed her just before and she thought you were doing the same? or maybe she was just having a bad night. At the end of the day i wouldnt dwell on it its clearly her issue.

Maybe she thought you bumped into her on purpose so you could feel her or talk to her to make a move on her.

nightclubs don't sound like especially friendly places to me.

Move on, buddy. s**t happens.

She was probably quite intoxicated.

Aspies and nightclubs really don't mix.

The woman you bumped into accident is probably one of those people should've known better than to react very horribly to you. Believe me, I know what that was like, since it used to be that way when I was in middle school. On my first year one time, there was this kid who I bumped into by accident. Even though I tried to apologize to him, he kept shoving me around and chased me throughout the entire playground during recess. About a year after, at the end of Health Class, there were group of girls chatting right next to the classroom door, blocking it. Even though I tried to tell them to move aside politely, they kept ignoring me and continued to chat, blocking the door. So tried to squeeze through the girls, and I accidently ended up bumping into one of them, and the girl just smacked me hard on my back, and all those girls were like, "What the f--k is wrong with you, a--hole!"

Yeah, those kind of people are just insensitive and rude, and are not worth hanging out with.

I feel it was really stupid and ignorant of her to react this way.

Like I said, she must have been pretty intoxicated.

This sort of thing makes me not want to go into nightclubs/bars/pubs/whatever.

I don't think they've yet invented the kinda nightclub that would have the friendly people i'd wanna interact with.