The Body Positive and Fat Acceptance Movement

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Fat people are objectifying their caretakers, with demands of food, pleasure, and acceptance.

Honestly -- it sounds cushy, posh.

My only question, at this point, is whether your waiters / butlers / fluffers are willing masochists, and if fat people are comfortable with that. Do both sides of this agreement acknowledge the situation for what it is, wholeheartedly.

I mean, if the collapsed, king size bed and bed pan ultimately belong to you, you can just say no. You can choose to kick the person out of that car, with the critically-burdened suspension, and not be the chauffeur, if you don't like to do that. Who is to say that it's your personal, social problem, to fix.

I am sure they are heavily-funded, via corporate welfare, but, at point-of-sale, wholesome food staples are very cheap, in this time and place.

You have to make the choice, to go either way.

I feel that you can look at a pastry chef stereotype, and say he likes to have his cake and eat it, too. That his choice. I went to a fudge store, in a German town, and the owner was very large. Is anyone feeling a moral dilemma or identity crisis, on reading that. There's a rhyme and a reason, for that, and it doesn't hurt my feelings.

It doesn't need to be helped, and Joe Blow fat-phobe is not the appointed lifestyle coach.

Yes, you are probably a faster runner. Really. Go do that. Enjoy your salad. To each his own. Maybe, you can win a bicycle marathon.

what I don't grok, is on tv there is this program called "evening magazine" showing these beautiful people with no body fat on them, taut and muscular, lean and mean, eating mass quantities of all this rich food at this eatery or that, and they get away with eating like that with never any bad effect, IOW they stay slim and fit. HOW DO THEY DO THIS??! !? can their genes really be that much better than mine?

These ideas are discussed in the Mediterranean, French, and Atkins diet plans:
https://archive.org/details/letteroncorpulen00bant

Heavy foods are not inherently harmful and even serve to stabilize blood sugar. Once a person has a steady metabolism, it's still possible to have occasional treats, as for a holiday or social event.

My eating is usually, somewhat primal, but I eat plenty of everything, on the day, when everyone does that. I like eating and say that I do. We are lucky for the food.

This is the best thing that's happened in recent years. I stay away from the Fish n Chips most of the time now. I only have sweets on special occasions like Valentines Day, Easter, birthdays and Christmas. I've slipped with the Pringles and Doritos. I'll be replacing those with salad for the next 5 months while salad is cheap. I'll also be saving up my money at the same time so I can afford salad all year round. I also drink Mio water more often than pop. My goal is to get to the point where I'm drinking pure water and Mio water instead of diet soda and Mio water.

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I have not responded recently. Realize what happened with my anger with @Kraichguaer. Looked up meaning of anger. It happens when someone mistreats you. So how did @Kraichgauer supposedly mistreat myself?

By being smugly indifferent. It is a kind of low-level, lame aggression (my older bro I realized later used to pull the same kind of thing which is why I was so pieved). To be clear it happened when I gave copious reasons but he responded with "No, I just like meat." Uhh, excuse you for not playing the game of being reasonable. That No did not address anything. It was just a big FU to myself cleverely and conceled behind being "social".

it seems to me that many aspies tend to have a stuck groove.

I wonder what he would think about fake meat?