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Hell-Fox
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03 Jun 2007, 8:22 pm

Heh 23 and never had a girlfriend. While it would be nice to have female company in my life, I have yet to meet a girl who can meet the challenge of not being one simply out to either use me, leech off me financially, or think of me as a conquest. But still that inner drive for human companionship can make us guys do crazy and stupid things.



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03 Jun 2007, 9:49 pm

Maybe if you allowed yourself to be conquered,
your first statement would change, and the others
as well.



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03 Jun 2007, 10:58 pm

calandale wrote:
Maybe if you allowed yourself to be conquered,
your first statement would change, and the others
as well.


Fat chance of that happening my friend. Though if you are into that whole being dominated thing thats fine, just don't pass it my way.



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03 Jun 2007, 11:03 pm

So you can't handle a woman strong
enough to make her intentions clear?

I'd still be a virgin, if that was the case.



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03 Jun 2007, 11:14 pm

calandale wrote:
So you can't handle a woman strong
enough to make her intentions clear?

I'd still be a virgin, if that was the case.


Sigh, I knew it was a bad idea to comment on that response. Last time I talk about anything regarding females and relationships.



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03 Jun 2007, 11:17 pm

Hell-Fox wrote:
Sigh, I knew it was a bad idea to comment on that response. Last time I talk about anything regarding females and relationships.


Why come to a forum, but to discuss openly?
Closing yourself off makes it just like talking
to people IRL (if you are that constrained).
If you write, you may learn things about
yourself.



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04 Jun 2007, 12:57 pm

calandale wrote:
Maybe if you allowed yourself to be conquered,
your first statement would change, and the others
as well.


maybe it's just me, but no woman has ever made the first move to get me. If I had waited until being conquered... I would die never having had a gf.


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