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futuresoldier1944
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01 Jun 2017, 5:05 pm

hurtloam wrote:
futuresoldier1944 wrote:
StinkyDog wrote:
ShadowProphet wrote:
I'm 22 years old


At that age, your body is overcome with hormones, commanding you to procreate. Without that burning desire, our species would have gone extinct long ago. The effect of the hormones is very hard in youth, but softens mercifully with age.


And I think that the effect of sexual hormones is even harder on men in their youth. Women can also have very strong sexual desires, but men's sexual desires may be more physically intense. Women's sexuality tends to be more emotional.

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Maybe ask a woman and you'll find different. It was f*****g torture being in my 20s. I really do think that a huge part of being depressed has to do with sexual frustration and I'm 35.

The only thing that killed it for me was antidepressants.

I'd still prefer the idea of love though. I know it's not the same situation, I could go on Tinder and hook up with someone, but I really don't want that.

My point was women have a sex drive too. Even if our options are different. I know young men who are holding out for love too, I really don't know how they cope.


I know that women can have a high sex drive too. But as high as my sex drive is and as much as I think about sex, I'm not sure that I'd be like this if I wasn't a guy. Sometimes my sexual frustration kills me, but I'd still much prefer to be horny all the time rather than rarely or never horny. Maybe because it seems to validate my masculinity, which I have often been insecure about. I know that being a man is a whole lot more than wanting to have lots of sex with many different women all the time. But that makes me feel like a man. And I don't think that I'll truly feel like a man until I finally lose my virginity. However, even then, I don't know how good in bed I'll be. It may take a lot of practice for me. Hopefully, I'll find a woman who will be more than understanding and who will enjoy our time in the sack regardless of how good I am simply because we are in love. And since women's sexuality is more emotional, that might be enough for her and might even cause her to have an orgasm. :lol:



ShadowProphet
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01 Jun 2017, 11:18 pm

StinkyDog wrote:
ShadowProphet wrote:
I'm 22 years old


At that age, your body is overcome with hormones, commanding you to procreate. Without that burning desire, our species would have gone extinct long ago. The effect of the hormones is very hard in youth, but softens mercifully with age.



You got that right!

I can't help myself, women are just so beautiful, it's very powerful which makes it hard to control, and it's hard to tell myself to simply not care about girls.

That's why I work out too, I try to keep myself in shape, it's why I never neglect exercise because I want to look good because I feel like if I make myself become out of shape, then women will never give me a chance. That's why i'll never allow myself to become fat.

But at the same time, I have to focus on my future and how i'm going to make money because if I don't, then women will never give me a chance because I have nothing going for me. I'm getting to that age where your income is starting to matter more and more.

Like I said, my love for women will never go away. All I can do is try to control it, try to keep it in check, not let it control me but it's hard.



HisShadowX
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03 Jun 2017, 2:26 pm

ShadowProphet wrote:
I want a girlfriend, to have sex so bad, the frustration is unreal sometimes. I'm 22 years old and never had a girlfriend, never had sex, never even kissed a girl. I try to tell myself to not worry, to not stress about not having anybody. But no matter what I do, I just can't help it. Love is my obsession; I NEED it like a vampire needs blood!

People tell me to wait or say don't worry love will find you. The truth is, iv'e been waiting my whole life and everyday I worry that i'm never going to find anyone. Like I said, I can't help it. My need for love, for validation from women has gotten so powerful, it simply can't be ignored, at least not anymore. It doesn't help that love and sex is everywhere in our culture, from songs on the radio, to couples walking down the street, to the porn you watch regularly. You can't escape our sex-induced culture and it makes those who've never gotten to experience that feel left out.

Every time I see an attractive girl walking down the street, god damn I can't help myself. Why do women have to be so beautiful, so alluring? I wish I could kill my desires and be set free from the chains of wanting their love. I'm just a slave to the attention of women, something iv'e always wanted but have never had. Something easily obtainable to many yet something I have yet to overcome. Every time I see a couple walking down the street or witness my college peers getting into relationships while I have yet to find that, it's hard for me.

I only know one thing. I'm a lover of beauty. It has always been this way, and it will always be this way till the day I die. So what is a life without ever experiencing love, experiencing sex? Sounds like an empty life to me... I would rather not suffer the same fate.



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StinkyDog
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03 Jun 2017, 3:28 pm

You might also consider Ben Franklin's advice

https://www.swarthmore.edu/SocSci/bdors ... 1-fra.html

Get yourself an old hag.