Can someone tell what my sexuality is?

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I'm a 33 year woman who mainly likes men/guys but sometimes I think about woman, even trans woman. But I can't date because I can't find anyone, I'm socially awkward, I have severe mental problems. No one wants to date me. I don't even like myself, though I do have 3 great friends. What is my sexuality? And is it ok if I never date anyone?

Everyone is unique, and preferences can be fluid, changing over time and mood. So you can define yourself however you want, e.g. bisexual, pansexual, or choose not to define yourself in a traditional way.

It's ok not to date anyone, but if you want to I think you could find someone for you.

Have you tried online dating sites?

Mostly straight. Probably about a 2 on the Kinsey scale.

If you don't feel like you want to passionately kiss a woman, and be intimate with her, then you're totally straight, in my opinion.

Dating websites are dangerous not knowing who the person is. And I have no choice in the matter of being single since I have never dated in my 33 years.

I think it is actually normal to question your sexuality when you have difficulty hooking up with partners of your desired gender.