Spiderpig wrote:
If I were still about her age, I myself would gladly have an arm and a leg cut off in exchange for a chance to get to know her. But, of course, it'd be a stupid idea, because I'd be even less use to her in that sorry state than otherwise.
My observation was that there were plenty of guys in the US who would be happy to date her solely on the basis of her appearance. But you have no idea whether you would actually like her if you met her. It's easy to fantasize about having a relationship with somebody you know very little about — the reality can be completely unexpected.
Another point I made though, is that the guys in question would want to know if she is interested in them. It has happened to me that a girl I hadn't especially thought of as a prospective date made me aware that she wanted to date me, and after that I was very interested indeed. I am thinking in particular of a coworker who was 6 years younger than I, who told her housemate she wanted a date with me. In today's world of online dating, I don't know what would be the equivalent situation, but if there is a way a young woman can make a guy aware of her interest, without inadvertently making it appear like an explicit invitation to have sex with her, she should definitely go for it. I think using an intermediary is still not a bad idea.