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02 Jun 2007, 7:25 am

Hi, I am Jen, I do not feel quite myself today, I feel quite off today too because do you ever feel you have to look a certain way or to wear certain clothes or listen to certain music because you feel there is 'rules' to be 'Goth' Emo' 'Punk 'Skater Etc. Or Because you like them sort of people?



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02 Jun 2007, 10:36 am

it's the nts making up rules to sort themselves into social groups. you don't have to join in, you can just be you and make your own trend


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02 Jun 2007, 11:12 am

Congratulations on making the ten thousandth thread about high school cliques.



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02 Jun 2007, 12:19 pm

I HAVE to feal with them all the time in eveyone of my classes.


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02 Jun 2007, 1:14 pm

JenJenBob wrote:
Hi, I am Jen, I do not feel quite myself today, I feel quite off today too because do you ever feel you have to look a certain way or to wear certain clothes or listen to certain music because you feel there is 'rules' to be 'Goth' Emo' 'Punk 'Skater Etc. Or Because you like them sort of people?


Don't worry - when you leave school you will find that there are just as many (albeit more subtle and conservative) adult cliques that people feel they have to fit into.


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02 Jun 2007, 1:43 pm

I hate Cliques.

People have tried and tried to "group" me, but they finally conclude and group me as either normal, just you, or weird.



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02 Jun 2007, 6:21 pm

Alternative wrote:
I hate Cliques.

People have tried and tried to "group" me, but they finally conclude and group me as either normal, just you, or weird.


I have to agree. I don't like cliques. They are quite unfair. I wonder why people just can't be themselves or the way that their parents raised them? I guess that's the power of peer pressure.



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03 Jun 2007, 5:09 am

the people you hand out with shouldnt define you ..... that would be silly

i belive there is a punk expression you could use: "I DO WHAT I WANT b***h"


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03 Jun 2007, 3:31 pm

Todd489 wrote:
Congratulations on making the ten thousandth thread about high school cliques.



:o Haha!!



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28 Sep 2008, 3:56 pm

I can tell you one thing about cliques. They suck! They are an excuse for people too afraid of eachother's differences to try and feel powerful. Bunch of cowards if you ask me.



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28 Sep 2008, 4:14 pm

Hmm.. I seem to fall into the goth clique really. I don't hang around with gothic people too much, but I'm what they'd call goth though I just be myself. I feel that if I hang around with other goths things get competitive and a "gothier than thou" attitude develops.



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28 Sep 2008, 7:02 pm

I don't really try that hard to fit in anymore. I have one noninternet friend though and I keep some of my interests hidden like anime.


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28 Sep 2008, 7:06 pm

Julia_the_Great wrote:
The gossip grapevine grows above my head and I never hear any rumors about me. Kind of lucky actually. NTs have me labeled as emo, bit strange really


I've been called emo because I was by myself a lot in school and I liked the emo music. I've also gotten the ret*d label and pyscho. I prefer emo to those.


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30 Sep 2008, 5:43 pm

I don't usually try to be emo... just the way I end up being.



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01 Oct 2008, 2:59 pm

If anything, I would probably be the Nerd, computer guy class one(I can fix that, but not that. Here, let me reference you to class 2.), and Gamer.


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01 Oct 2008, 7:32 pm

I really don't do clinches. To me its just a bunch of people who want to appear better than everyone else so sort them into groups with bad names whilst giving themselves the 'leader's seat'

Besides, everywhere I've seen it the 'populars' are generally hated by everyone else. I prove this by hitting a popular and then having people congratulate me for it.