Teenage girls are a lot friendlier

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20 Nov 2017, 9:11 pm

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I don't know about your motives and I'm sure they are not sexual

His motives might not be.
But the girls' motives most certainly are.
He is best advised to avoid those girls like the Black Death.



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21 Nov 2017, 1:05 am

I haven't experienced that at all. I think adult women are usually nicer.


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21 Nov 2017, 1:53 am

Jamesy wrote:
Does anyone else agree that teenaģe girls are a lot nicer and easy going compared compared too adult women?


This may be the result of multiple possibilities:
The young women may be flattered by your attention. Young girls are desperate to establish that they are capable of attracting the attention of the opposite sex. Some of these adolescents come to realize how shallow and empty that achievement is in and of itself once they have matured a little. Some never do.
You may find that younger people are closer to your maturity level and/or since they have not figured out the accepted social protocol, your awkwardness may be less glaring.
Any way you slice it, unless you are referring to the highly unlikely scenario that your intentions are completely innocent, your age makes this a situation that will be viewed as questionable at best.
The age disparity will be nothing in another ten years but then the object of your admiration will have become an "adult".



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21 Nov 2017, 5:59 am

I relate more to teenagers because I don't have my sh!t together with life & am immature for my age. Also both my ex girlfriends were teenagers when I was in my 20s. I was 20 & my 1st girlfriend was 15 & I was about 28 & my 2nd girlfriend was 19. I think my 1st girlfriend kind of saw me as a father figure because she never knew her dad & she had issues with things like drugs & alcohol & I tried to get her to stop(we were friends in the begging before she told me she liked me).


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21 Nov 2017, 6:01 am

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I don't know about your motives and I'm sure they are not sexual and hold no bad intent.

Well we are in the Love & Dating forum, so I may have jumped to conclusions.


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21 Nov 2017, 11:18 am

I honestly don't like to link most groups to a personality. Some (or most) teenage girls are kinda bitchy, some are nice. Some white men are douchebags, some are nice. Some black men are douchebags, some are nice. Not every pothead is chilled out, some are shady, and not every alcoholic is a redneck tramp, some are very friendly.

Don't make friends based on their outside appearance. I think it would serve you well to learn that just because you see someone is a young female, doesn't mean they're gonna make a good friend. The lesson here is that our insides and outsides, while there is a definite possibility they could fit the stereotype, could also be worlds apart.


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21 Nov 2017, 12:24 pm

I used to have really lousy encounters with teenage females when I was a teenager.

I always had nice encounters with adult females---had crushes on them, in fact.

My first lover was a teenage girl (I was a teenager, too)---but my next lover was 10 years older, in her late 20s.

Over all, teenage girls tend to be moody. And they tend to form gangs of themselves, and to even have crushes on each other. They might, or might not, be friendly to boys. They weren't friendly to me, for the most part.



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21 Nov 2017, 2:52 pm

The Abdominal Snowman wrote:
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I don't know about your motives and I'm sure they are not sexual

His motives might not be.
But the girls' motives most certainly are.
He is best advised to avoid those girls like the Black Death.

"They certainly are?" Are you trying to say that teenage girls are the ones trying to get sex from older men? A quick view of any porn site will show that older men have a thing for sex with teenage girls.
On a personal note I had a trusted older man try to get me to have sex with him at 14 and my intentions were very much not sexual.

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emmasma wrote:
I don't know about your motives and I'm sure they are not sexual and hold no bad intent.

Well we are in the Love & Dating forum, so I may have jumped to conclusions.

Yes I did not realize this was the Love & Dating section. I saw this in the new posts list when I first responded.

Steer clear Jamesy.



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21 Nov 2017, 6:12 pm

Bunch of teen girls do want sex with older men though. My niece certainly did.

They’re called jail bait by guys. Some even get fake ids and lie about their age.

Teen porn is 18/19 old teens. So adults.
There’s not a lot of guys who want underage teen porn(I hope anyways)



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21 Nov 2017, 7:37 pm

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Bunch of teen girls do want sex with older men though. My niece certainly did.

They’re called jail bait by guys. Some even get fake ids and lie about their age.

Teen porn is 18/19 old teens. So adults.
There’s not a lot of guys who want underage teen porn(I hope anyways)
There's lots of teen girls who want sex & relationships with older guys where I'm from. The cops won't really do anything if her parents call em.


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24 Nov 2017, 12:37 am

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Bunch of teen girls do want sex with older men though. My niece certainly did.

They’re called jail bait by guys. Some even get fake ids and lie about their age.

Teen porn is 18/19 old teens. So adults.
There’s not a lot of guys who want underage teen porn(I hope anyways)


I don't mean to burst your innocent bubble but teen porn is as young as they can get away with, I've known teens that were propositioned. And there is a substantial buying market. People and there proclivities can be pretty ugly.

Wanted to add the age of consent in Japan was 12 when I lived there not all that long ago.



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24 Nov 2017, 1:55 am

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I don't need to repeat my bullying experiences delivered from fellow teenagers but as an adult, I now find teenagers to be very easy to deal with, particularly girls. They have yet to get the inflated egos you generally see from the 20-25 crowd.

I knew some bitchy teenagers when I was in high school but they've been more easy going lately. So does this mean that teenaged girls are only bitchy to other teenagers? Not to thirtyagers?

Perhaps they see people in their own age group as rivals so they b***h at them but they don't see people twice their age as rivals so they see no need to be mean to them.


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24 Nov 2017, 4:31 am

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Bunch of teen girls do want sex with older men though. My niece certainly did.

They’re called jail bait by guys. Some even get fake ids and lie about their age.

Teen porn is 18/19 old teens. So adults.
There’s not a lot of guys who want underage teen porn(I hope anyways)


I don't mean to burst your innocent bubble but teen porn is as young as they can get away with, I've known teens that were propositioned. And there is a substantial buying market. People and there proclivities can be pretty ugly.

Wanted to add the age of consent in Japan was 12 when I lived there not all that long ago.

1% of 320 million is 3,200,000. I don’t think a majority of guys want to have sex with under age girls.

Legal porn can’t have minors. I don’t know anything about illegal porn. I don’t break laws. Generally speaking adult women who are tiny is unappealing to me in porn. Cause they look too young. I do find such women cute in real life. But I guess only so small. Doesn’t help those porn dress them up as little girls for the daddy fetish. Why do some women call their sexual partners daddy and want to dress up as a child?
I’m into pet play which is weird to a lot of people. But the sub/daddy thing Weirds me out.

I think it’d be super adorable to date a short petite woman though. I’m 6’3” and the height difference is so cute with other tall guys and tiny women couples. I wonder though if for sexual stuff I’d be turned off by such a woman?
Must be tough for tiny women, either guys turn off cause they resemble teen girl or some guys have a unhealthy fetish for them looking like a teen girl. Meaning 15ish.
This lady at work is super tiny. I could totally pick her up and I’m weak, she’s super adorable. She’s in college. But looks much younger cause she’s tiny.



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24 Nov 2017, 5:05 am

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I think it’d be super adorable to date a short petite woman though. I’m 6’3” and the height difference is so cute with other tall guys and tiny women couples. I wonder though if for sexual stuff I’d be turned off by such a woman?
Must be tough for tiny women, either guys turn off cause they resemble teen girl or some guys have a unhealthy fetish for them looking like a teen girl. Meaning 15ish.
This lady at work is super tiny. I could totally pick her up and I’m weak, she’s super adorable. She’s in college. But looks much younger cause she’s tiny.

You'll get such a crick in your neck after you try to kiss her. You should date a 6'3" girl. It's really cute when both members of a couple are the same height.


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RetroGamer87 wrote:
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I think it’d be super adorable to date a short petite woman though. I’m 6’3” and the height difference is so cute with other tall guys and tiny women couples. I wonder though if for sexual stuff I’d be turned off by such a woman?
Must be tough for tiny women, either guys turn off cause they resemble teen girl or some guys have a unhealthy fetish for them looking like a teen girl. Meaning 15ish.
This lady at work is super tiny. I could totally pick her up and I’m weak, she’s super adorable. She’s in college. But looks much younger cause she’s tiny.

You'll get such a crick in your neck after you try to kiss her. You should date a 6'3" girl. It's really cute when both members of a couple are the same height.

Kneeling or she could stand on her toes, or a chair. It’s so adorable. Google tell guy short girl.
Such girls are way out of my league though. They tend to be thin and most other guys find them cute too.

I don’t think so. Same height couples are not very cute. They don’t have to do cute things to kiss etc.



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24 Nov 2017, 5:57 am

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RetroGamer87 wrote:
sly279 wrote:
I think it’d be super adorable to date a short petite woman though. I’m 6’3” and the height difference is so cute with other tall guys and tiny women couples. I wonder though if for sexual stuff I’d be turned off by such a woman?
Must be tough for tiny women, either guys turn off cause they resemble teen girl or some guys have a unhealthy fetish for them looking like a teen girl. Meaning 15ish.
This lady at work is super tiny. I could totally pick her up and I’m weak, she’s super adorable. She’s in college. But looks much younger cause she’s tiny.

You'll get such a crick in your neck after you try to kiss her. You should date a 6'3" girl. It's really cute when both members of a couple are the same height.

Kneeling or she could stand on her toes, or a chair. It’s so adorable. Google tell guy short girl.
Such girls are way out of my league though. They tend to be thin and most other guys find them cute too.

I don’t think so. Same height couples are not very cute. They don’t have to do cute things to kiss etc.

Not all short girls are thin. There is no correlation between height and BMI.


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