NLC1072 wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
So true. I have tried to fix my ex's and you can't fix anyone unless they want to be fixed and they will try and do the changes. So I had to move on from them.
What would make you think anybody needs "fixing"?
NT's sometimes tell us that, and we don't need fixing.
You'll only find the right person, when you've found the right person, don't try and "fix" the "wrong" person.
People with control issues, anger issues, anxiety issues, etc. Both my ex's had issues and I moved on from them.
My brother's ex is mean and abusive and very manipulative and controlling, my brother left her after she cheated and she still tries to find ways to ruin his life and uses their kids as pawns. My brother has tried to make things work between them when they were together but at least he listened to my mother when she told him do not get married just because she is pregnant.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses.