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24 Dec 2017, 4:48 am

Hi all. I want to discuss something.

I agree with the liberals on most issues, with a few exceptions. For example, I don't agree with gun control and I don't agree with political correctness.

Here's a True Story: When I was a teenager, I was bullied so hard that I was suicidal. I told my mom about it and she just told me to man up and solve my own problems. My mom seemed like a jerk at the time, but now I know that she was doing me a big favor. Because she never helped me, I had to find ways to free myself from emotional pain all by myself. Now I'm a man with thick skin who is almost never offended by anything. Mom always told me that being offended is a choice, and she was right. That's why I roll my eyes at political correctness. The phrase "I'm offended." is never a valid argument.

Here's the thing: Political correctness isn't just a progressive thing. Conservatives have their own version of political correctness. Let's compare them.

Left-wing Political Correctness
"Video games with jiggling boobies are offensive to women! BAWWWWWW!"
"Porn is degrading to women! BAWWWWW!"
"White people can't wear dreadlocks! That's cultural appropriation! BAWWWWWW!"
"Don't depict Muhammad! Muslims find that offensive! BAWWWWWW!"

Right-Wing Political Correctness
"Don't insult Jesus! BAWWWWWWW!"
"Don't insult America! BAWWWWWWW!"
"Don't insult Trump! BAWWWWWWW!"
"Don't insult the Confederacy! BAWWWWWWW!"

See? They're like mirror images of one another.

The whole world needs to stop choosing to be offended. Every day, I explore political discussions and I see people in the "Offended Olympics". In other words, people are constantly fighting over who is more offended.

Meanwhile, America currently has a crappy system even though the solution is blatantly obvious. According to the American legal system, lobbying is covered by free speech, even when it involves financial funding.

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Citizens_United_v._Federal_Election_Commission

Meanwhile, in Canada there are legal restrictions on lobbying. These restrictions aren't perfect and they cannot utterly prevent financial lobbying, but they are better than nothing.

This is why there is such a huge gulf between when the US government does and what the American people believe. This is why the American government keeps creating new wars even though most Americans hate war. This is why corporate subsidies continue in America even though they are extremely unpopular. This is why the Patriot Act persists despite its overwhelming unpopularity. This is why the American government continues to ally itself with the Saudi Royals even though most Americans think that the Saudi Royals are monsters.

In Canada, the gap between popular opinion and state policy is not as large. Anti-lobbying laws work. Canada is proof of that. Restrictions on lobbying have also benefited the EU.

See? I just pointed out a policy change that would solve a lot of real problems and save millions of lives. Unfortunately, most "political" people just want to argue over who is more offended.

As a result, Western culture is being torn apart by two clans of hyper-sensitive, easily-offended cultural critics. Meanwhile, the structure of the political system isn't changing, even though some of the changes that should be made are blatantly obvious.


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24 Dec 2017, 1:09 pm

Today everything seemingly being horrifically offensive has caused a number of problems.

Free expression of thought is under a threat that might be nearing existential levels.

The concepts of a spectrum of offensiveness and the context behind the so called offensive language has been practically lost.

What we have now is a backlash/over correction whereby the idea that some things should be offensive is being lost on some people. Trolling and saying actually offensive things in the name of political incorrectness and just to enjoy seeing people reacting to them by having tantrums is a large part of Trump's appeal and for the most part what the alt right is about.


Lobbies controlled the American government long before uber political incorrectness arrived.


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24 Dec 2017, 1:16 pm

I don't know where I stand on your assertions about how pervasive the impacts of lobbying are but our tribalism and 'muh feels' have definitely been out of hand for a long time. Bowing to 'muh feels' , especially when it's aimed against reason, is bad because it doesn't actually solve the problem - ie. as you found out we're anti-fragile in a lot of ways and the more a person's catered to on offense they don't get healthier. I do think we need to take serious stances against bullying because, like taking out the belt on children for misbehaving, it tends to instill a 'might makes right' ethic at very fundamental levels of a persons wiring which runs counter to what we want in our culture and it makes people bullheaded as well as often stunting potential in those bullied but your mom was right that - in the time when it happened to you - there was no societal solution in place and hence you had to deal with it in your own way.

As far as tribalism goes, OTOH, I consider Jonathan Haidt to be something of the go-to expert these days on the matter. In the video below he outlines a few particular causes that he considers to be the two primary issues - first Newt Gingrich sizing the congressional work week as such that Republican lawmakers fly in and out of DC rather than living with Democrat law makers on a social level in the DC area, and then on the other - which he's been talking about for more time - is the stilting of college departments in many topics toward increasing echo chamber status, by that token, increased toxicity toward difference of opinion.

The moral of that story I suppose - the less people have to actually ever meet people they disagree with the more they're able to draw them up as ghouls and goblins. I mentioned in another thread that on Facebook I see the political art caricatures almost seeming to reflect just how badly people are distorting the 'other' these days.


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24 Dec 2017, 3:58 pm

I agree for the most part, but I wouldn't exactly say they're mirror images of each other. While liberals can make mountains out of mole hills when it comes to what is and isn't racist, conservatives can be super stubborn about it and refuse to acknowledge anything short of a burning cross on a front lawn as racist. It's like the difference between denialists and alarmists for global warming.

The biggest problem is that terms like "racist" and "sexist" become catch-all and conflate mere ignorance with bigotry and malicious intent. I get all sorts of weird questions and comments as a racial minority, but I know there's a difference between being out of touch and being flat out passive-aggressive.

Although I embrace identity politics, I can understand why either side would find it annoying and I don't take it as far as some hardcore liberals. However, like you said about political correctness, identity politics is also something that both sides are guilty of. The alt-right is one of the guiltiest offenders with their white victim mentality. While I acknowledge that racial minorities suffer the most from racism and consider whites to be inherently out of touch with it, I'd much rather stick to the dictionary definition of racism than get into a circlejerk over who's more oppressed.

By the way, I found your view on lobbying in Canada and America to be very insightful and it certainly explains a lot about the rampant corruption in American politics.



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24 Dec 2017, 4:02 pm

ASPartOfMe wrote:
Today everything seemingly being horrifically offensive has caused a number of problems.

Free expression of thought is under a threat that might be nearing existential levels.

The concepts of a spectrum of offensiveness and the context behind the so called offensive language has been practically lost.

What we have now is a backlash/over correction whereby the idea that some things should be offensive is being lost on some people. Trolling and saying actually offensive things in the name of political incorrectness and just to enjoy seeing people reacting to them by having tantrums is a large part of Trump's appeal and for the most part what the alt right is about.


Yeah. The political right is a lost cause now. That's why I almost never try to seriously argue with them. The liberals may change, but this will take a lot of work.

The liberals seem to be well-intentioned people who want to do good, but they have difficulty doing good because they don't understand the structure of the system.

Environmental destruction and perpetual warfare will inevitably persist as long as billionaires control the U.S. government. Until lobbying is restricted in the United States, the debate regarding global climate change is essentially moot.

I've noticed that liberals will blame just about everything except the lobbyists. For example, some liberals will claim that warfare comes from patriarchy. I'm pretty sure that the billionaires are just trying to line their own pockets. Patriarchy is awful, but it isn't the main force driving US foreign policy. After all, the people in the middle and lower classes are the ones who actually believe in sexist stereotypes. The elites just use these stereotypes for social control.

I also think that "Russiagate" has been over-emphasized. Countries meddle in each other's elections all the time, but I don't think that Russia was the decisive factor.

Usually, when foreign meddling is the decisive factor, America is the country doing the meddling. That's how Boris Yeltsin got elected.

I know why Trump got elected. A lot of Americans fear Islamic terrorism. Trump gave a false solution that will actually worsen the problem. Clinton just kinda avoided the question. Sanders gave a more realistic solution, which is why he was sabotaged.

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Lobbies controlled the American government long before uber political incorrectness arrived.


America was always full of political correctness.

Right-wing political correctness is less common now. Left-wing political correctness is more common. Same thing.

Calling someone a "traitor" is just another form of political correctness. Threatening people with eternal Hellfire is just another form of political correctness.


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24 Dec 2017, 5:55 pm

AceOfSpades wrote:
I agree for the most part, but I wouldn't exactly say they're mirror images of each other. While liberals can make mountains out of mole hills when it comes to what is and isn't racist, conservatives can be super stubborn about it and refuse to acknowledge anything short of a burning cross on a front lawn as racist. It's like the difference between denialists and alarmists for global warming.

The biggest problem is that terms like "racist" and "sexist" become catch-all and conflate mere ignorance with bigotry and malicious intent. I get all sorts of weird questions and comments as a racial minority, but I know there's a difference between being out of touch and being flat out passive-aggressive.

Although I embrace identity politics, I can understand why either side would find it annoying and I don't take it as far as some hardcore liberals. However, like you said about political correctness, identity politics is also something that both sides are guilty of. The alt-right is one of the guiltiest offenders with their white victim mentality. While I acknowledge that racial minorities suffer the most from racism and consider whites to be inherently out of touch with it, I'd much rather stick to the dictionary definition of racism than get into a circlejerk over who's more oppressed.

By the way, I found your view on lobbying in Canada and America to be very insightful and it certainly explains a lot about the rampant corruption in American politics.


^ This.

I agree completely.


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24 Dec 2017, 6:26 pm

@Darth: Delenda est indeed.

I'm American, and I was taught about lobbyists at my daddy's knee. And you are right. And it has almost certainly gone on for over two hundred years.


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30 Dec 2017, 1:40 am

Darth, that's a good thing. I don't really agree with modern liberalism as you do, I am closer to classical liberal/conservative-ish. But my point is, by what you said, I find it a step more rational than other modern American liberals today. Also, PC can even turn out hurting certain demographics. As a matter of fact, I might be able to make the case that today's modern society and culture sometimes hurts AS people more than it would have some decades ago.



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30 Dec 2017, 6:39 pm

Political correctness is pretty dumb. I'm an anarchist feminist and pretty far left but, honestly, a lot of lefties need to grow thicker skins and learn not to take life so seriously. There are social issues that are super important to address, like the drug war and how it plays into systemic racism, corporations not being held accountable for unethical practices, or the real violence and prejudice transpeople face. Then there's just petty s**t like saying white people can't wear dreads or that cisgendered people can't use words like transgendered (The hypocrisy isn't lost on me.).

Also, I've had with identity politics and am tired of misandrists and TERFs shutting out the voices of vulnerable men and transpeople and making feminism look like a joke. I'm not an MRA or anything but I do believe that gender equality requires us to look at the unique ways ALL genders suffer in our society.

Then there's the almost inexistent wage gap. lol.

I could go on but I'd be rambling forever.

I'll always be a left-leaning person and think the conservative values are a steaming pile of BS but I've just gotten to the point where listening and believing people just because they're marginalized seems naive too. I like to form my own opinions.



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31 Dec 2017, 12:25 am

I also want to talk about another thing that is closely tied to political correctness - pointless buzzwords.

Some liberals will justify their positions using pointless, flowery buzzwords such as "love", "tolerance", "diversity", "acceptance" ect.

Conservatives love to make fun of this, as they should ... but some people on the political right are also prone to using buzzwords such as "mob rule", "un-American", "unpatriotic" ect. Conservatives are also prone to throwing around the word "anarchy" as a pejorative even though most of them have never read about anarchist philosophy.

Addionally, I've noticed that fundamentalist Christian language is an eerie mirror of typical liberal language. Both liberals and fundamentalist Christians throw around the word "love" in a very creepy way to describe everything good, and will throw around the word "hate" to describe everything that they dislike. Addionally, liberals and fundies will both use the term "closed minded" as an insult excessively, in an utterly cringe-inducing way.

Additionally, fundamentalist Christian use of the word "faith" is just as meaningless as the liberal use of the word "tolerance". Additionally, typical liberal phrases like "Diversity is our strength." are just as hollow as typical fruity fundie phrases like "Hallelujah! Jesus is alive!" I'm saying all of this even though I self-identify as a liberal.

If liberalism is going to rise again after the Trump era, there needs to be some big changes within liberalism. The pointless, hippie-ish, fundie-ish, buzzwords need to be discarded in favor of concrete plans for policy changes. Additionally, the mushy love bullcrap needs to be discarded in favor of biting, ironic humor. We want to make people wake up, not make them queasy.


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31 Dec 2017, 3:00 am

Overall, I think that modern political discourse over-emphasizes the importance of the culture war.

When I talk about the "culture war", I am talking about the cultural conflict with traditionalists, fundamentalists and reactionaries representing the right-wing side, while the atheists, feminists, LGBT+ activists and black power activists take the left-wing side.

The culture war does have a certain degree of importance, but it is easy to over-emphasize its importance in the grand scheme of things, especially in the United States. After all, America is only barely a democracy, for reasons I already discussed. As a result, the American culture war has a minimal effect on government policy. After all, most of the active participants in the culture war are in the middle class ... and the American middle class only has only a minimal effect on government policy.

That's why the modern SJW movement and the modern anti-SJW movement are equally pointless. We can argue all day long about what is and isn't okay in universities, but what does this ultimately amount to? They'll vote Democrat? Whatever. The Democrat leaders don't do anything except obey their corporate donors ... and these corporate donors are entirely driven by Nietzschean self-interest ... so it's all nothing.



That's why I talk about lobbying so much. Lobbying is an economic force which essentially renders our little middle-class political discussions moot.

Still think that a restriction on lobbying would lead to "mob rule"? Whatever. Enjoy living under plutocracy.


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01 Jan 2018, 1:24 pm

PC exists on both sides of the political spectrum, but I believe it exists in much smaller amount than you think it does. The moment there is a suggestion of it loads of people leap on it and that amplification suggests it exists to a greater degree than it really does.



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03 Jan 2018, 7:49 pm

My issue is that people and the useful idiots who follow them have successfully started a brigade by stereotyping all those who oppose political correctness as racists, bigots, or other terms. In the meantime, most people who "complain" about political correctness are frustrated because they get nearly stopped from discussing issues that are actually serious rather than abstract ideas or identity politics.

The right isn't as "evil" as the mass media wants people to believe. All they ever want to do is pit sides up against each other from a negative perspective.



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03 Jan 2018, 11:23 pm

8:07 - he's explaining all the ways that the purity tests no-platforming of contrary ideas are failing the causes their intended to support.


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04 Jan 2018, 3:50 am

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My issue is that people and the useful idiots who follow them have successfully started a brigade by stereotyping all those who oppose political correctness as racists, bigots, or other terms. In the meantime, most people who "complain" about political correctness are frustrated because they get nearly stopped from discussing issues that are actually serious rather than abstract ideas or identity politics.

The right isn't as "evil" as the mass media wants people to believe. All they ever want to do is pit sides up against each other from a negative perspective.


A lot of them stereotype anybody who disagrees with them as those terms.


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06 Jun 2021, 6:56 am

Boring or better? How to do comedy in an age of outrage

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American comedian Chris Rock says the fear of being cancelled is making comedy safe and boring. Nikki Macdonald asks Kiwi comedians what are the new rules, and are they making comedy boring, or better.

Even live, the joke landed hard, an uncomfortable groan backing up the initial laughs. But it was the social media pile-on 10 days later that prompted the apology.

It was the 7 Days comedy show slot, where teams guess the news event. Muted television footage showed Aucklanders bussing north to jump the Covid-19 vaccination queue.

“They got discounted tickets going back – disability discount, because now they’ve all got autism,” Michele A’Court joked.

It was clearly intended as satire aimed at anti-vaxxers, who falsely claim vaccines cause autism.

But 10 days later, a Twitter user reposted the clip, calling it a disgusting, bad-taste disability joke. Replies called it “gutter level entertainment” and said A’Court should be ashamed of herself.

”I apologise, and will do better,” A’Court responded.

One parent of a 6-year-old with autism summed up the problem: “I get the satire, really I do, but it clearly has no place in 2021.”

So what does have a place in comedy in 2021? Fellow comedian Te Radar calls A’Court one of the nicest, most socially aware comedians in New Zealand. If even she can be called out as disgusting, how do comics navigate a world of heightened sensitivities? And has the rapid evolution of what’s acceptable made comedy boring, or better?

Around the world, beloved comedy series have been taking hits. An episode of British sitcom Fawlty Towers was pulled as racist – then reinstated with a disclaimer.

Ricky Gervais says The Office would not be made now, for fear of causing offence. And white actor Hank Azaria recently apologised for voicing the Indian character Apu on The Simpsons.

New Zealand is not immune. Kiwi stand-up pioneer Matt Elliott, who wrote a 2009 biography of comic legend Billy T James, remembers being asked to appear on Radio New Zealand to discuss James. He suggested a clip of Billy T sending up a Japanese accent, as a talking point. No thanks, RNZ said.

Elliott started out in 1989. It was a golden age of comedy, when anyone could say whatever they wanted. Right?

“I can still remember some comedians’ material. It was just appalling. Things that were really grossly sexual, or misogynistic, or homophobic. It was real cringeworthy stuff.”

Women who took the stage at Auckland’s Gluepot were abused by boozed punters for daring to write original material.

Even celebrated comedy can date, Elliott says. Billy T’s classic “Where did I get my bag? – I pinched it” skit, would make no sense to a generation unfamiliar with the Lands for Bags ad it parodied. But it could also be criticised as reinforcing negative stereotypes.

Audiences have always slapped down jokes they don’t like, but the post-performance social media pile-on is on a completely different level, Elliott says. While it’s hard to imagine anyone weeping a wake for lazy homophobic and racist jokes, there’s a danger that comedy retreats to the small, but safe world of personal experience.

“We're losing a lot of the satire and the greater comment about what is going on, because people are afraid of what the reaction is going to be.”

One comedian gave a half-hour interview for this story, then pulled out over fears of a social media backlash. Seven others, including A’Court, politely declined to contribute.

Ginette McDonald, creator of Lyn of Tawa, says comedians are caught in “new choppy waters”.

“It’s quite hard to navigate comedy, particularly if you want to do social satire, in these conditions... you really have to twist yourself in knots to not offend.”

Looking back, there is much she did then that could not be done now. She once played Winnie Mandela with a tyre around her neck – a reference to Mandela’s public endorsement of necklacing (burning people alive using petrol-filled tyres).

If she wanted to relate a funny, true-life interaction between an Asian woman and a gay hairdresser, she just wouldn’t. “Which is a shame, because it’s just all part of life.”

Veteran comedian Gary McCormick agrees audiences are more sensitive.

“And so they should be. Because it’s not funny to make jokes about Māori for being Māori, or Chinese for being Chinese, or mimicking Asian accents.

Your only job is to undermine the privileged and the people that have too much power and too much money and too much control. Not to attack the people that are already struggling. That is bullying.”

However, McCormick reckons too many comics today take the easy road of swearing and talking about bodily functions and sex, in place of social satire.

Te Radar, who now mostly does commercial gigs, says the potential for long-burning outrage is much greater with the advent of social media. But comedy has never been unconstrained.

“Some people still continue to have the sense that comedy is the ability to say whatever you want, and that that has always been the case. That's never always been the case.There's always been lines and the audience will tell you where that line is, by reacting against it.”

What looks like an age of outrage to those used to having free rein, is an age of reckoning to those who were the constant butt of jokes.

Comedic actor and writer Madeleine​ Sami says the MeToo movement and growing recognition of racial disparities has caused rapid change in social attitudes, leaving comedians catching up with what they can and can’t say.

Comedy does date, and evolve, Sami says. The Office was a favourite show, but includes some terrible jokes. Then there are the ‘80s specials from her comedy heroes Robin Williams or Richard Pryor – more terrible edgy comedy. Or Eddie Murphy openly mocking gay people.

For me, as a woman of colour and a queer person as well, it’s a relief,” Sami says. “It’s great that people are having to think about their comedy, and who it hurts, more.”

Hansell says humour should observe, provoke and be in tune with the climate it’s a product of. The fact the audience speaks back more just makes creators more accountable.

Political correctness gone mad is usually a red flag that someone laments the heyday of rape jokes and can’t understand how someone like me got on the table.”

Scott Blanks listens back to the lovely CD they made in about 1998/99 of a night at his Auckland bastion of comedy, The Classic.

“I listen to that and think ‘My God, you couldn’t say that any more, you couldn’t say that any more. There’s no doubt that themes change, but a good comedian knows that and changes their act.”

“There might be things you can’t say the way you used to say them, but that doesn’t necessarily mean the premise has changed. You just might change the punchline. It’s a case of getting the tone right.”

Some rules are clear – no homophobic jokes, no racist jokes. No cheap shots at poor people, homeless people, fat people. No gender jokes, unless it’s discussing gender in the modern context.

No taking the piss out of accents, especially Asian accents. You might get away with a regional British or American accent though.

Sami laughs that if she sounds confused, it’s because she is. This is a conversation she has a lot with comedian friends, and the commandments aren’t clear.

People shouldn’t tell trans jokes, or gay jokes, unless they’re trans or gay, Sami says. But she loves American trans comedian Patti Harrison, who explores being trans in a dark, comedic way.

But you don’t necessarily get a free pass to say whatever you want about your own kind, whether that’s defined by age, ethnicity, sexuality or gender.

“The list of forbidden topics is always changing, and comedy evolves, like society, and it’s the job of the comic to feel where the line is. Sometimes you only find out by tripping over it. I’m sure if you’re the guest speaker at a KKK rally, the line is in a different place than for my audience.”

Standup comic Dave Batten, who has cerebral palsy, responded to A’Court’s apology with his own vaccine joke: “I thought it caused cerebral palsy, but that’s just being a d...head that causes that.”

Batten says while he hopes he doesn’t offend his audience, it’s irrelevant to him if someone doesn’t like his comedy. He doesn’t think only comedians with a disability can make fun of disabilities.

“The only rule in stand-up comedy from my perspective is tell jokes that you want to tell. Don’t tiptoe around other people because they might get offended. As a comedian, you have to stay true to your craft.”

Most of those interviewed believe the best comedians can still push the line of controversy and offence

Te Radar: “There is a real strong conversation going on around what is an appropriate thing to say and what isn’t. Does it go too far sometimes? Yeah, probably it does. But likewise, comedy has gone too far at times as well.”

The Classic is the busiest it’s been in 23 years, Blanks says. Anyone who says fear of backlash is making comedy boring is out of touch, he says.

There are more female comedians, Asians, Indians, Africans, children of immigrants. And that means more people can enjoy comedy, knowing they’re not going to be the butt of cheap jokes.

Hansell once told another writer: “If you think being insensitive to a group you don’t belong to makes for better comedy, have you considered you might be a sociopath?”

Sami also believes the challenge of being funny without hurting people will make comedy better.

“It’s a long overdue recognition that comedy has relied on mocking a lot of vulnerable people for a long time. And that’s weirdly been acceptable. And I think it’s just reflective of what’s been acceptable in society, and it’s not now. So, change your jokes.”


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