women who are non-attractive/low social status/mental illnes

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14 May 2018, 2:37 pm

dont want guys who are like that, how then can there be any hope for those type of guys? for sure normal women dont want them either.

how come guys even normal guys accept all kind of women but women only accept guys who are attractive, have big social status and no mental illness? how is this fair? why all this demands on guys?

why do a fat woman with no friends get accepted but not a fat man with no friends?



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14 May 2018, 3:16 pm

If you are fat, you can do something with your weight, not for women but for you.

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14 May 2018, 4:54 pm

How does one answer questions based on false information? It's like asking "how come nobody eats Brussels sprouts, not even vegans?". Maybe you never saw anyone eat a Brussels sprout. Maybe nobody ate the ones you offered. But some people definitely do eat them. So the question can't be answered.



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14 May 2018, 4:58 pm

Nira wrote:
If you are fat, you can do something with your weight, not for women but for you.

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women are way more shallow than males, its a fact.
You shouldn't judge all women. You don't know all.


ok so what woman want me? what woman want a guy who is very ugly, has no friends and is boring and cant fix any of this. tell me who. give me her name and number.



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14 May 2018, 4:59 pm

yellowtamarin wrote:
How does one answer questions based on false information? It's like asking "how come nobody eats Brussels sprouts, not even vegans?". Maybe you never saw anyone eat a Brussels sprout. Maybe nobody ate the ones you offered. But some people definitely do eat them. So the question can't be answered.


so tell me, why is it that i am gonna live my whole life alone if women are not shallow. why is there no woman for me? how is it possible that all women in the world thinks that i am ugly and boring if i am wrong?



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14 May 2018, 5:10 pm

white_as_snow wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
How does one answer questions based on false information? It's like asking "how come nobody eats Brussels sprouts, not even vegans?". Maybe you never saw anyone eat a Brussels sprout. Maybe nobody ate the ones you offered. But some people definitely do eat them. So the question can't be answered.


so tell me, why is it that i am gonna live my whole life alone if women are not shallow. why is there no woman for me? how is it possible that all women in the world thinks that i am ugly and boring if i am wrong?

If it's true (let's just say you have been rejected by every woman in the world), then it's because of reasons specifically to do with you, not to do with generalisations about women. But if you're honest with yourself, you already knew that. So the ball is in your court to find things you can (and want to) change about yourself.



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14 May 2018, 5:13 pm

white_as_snow wrote:

how come guys even normal guys accept all kind of women but women only accept guys who are attractive, have big social status and no mental illness?...

why do a fat woman with no friends get accepted but not a fat man with no friends?


How much time exactly have you spent as an unattractive woman to know this for a fact?

There are undesireables amongst both sexes, believe it or not. This is not a contest of who has it worse. So stop it right there.


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14 May 2018, 5:20 pm

Sexism is against the rules of Wrong Planet. This includes blanket generalisations that target all women or all men in demeaning ways. Your comment breached the rules, and was removed from your original post. What you think is a fact was a personal insult to women with no basis in fact at all.



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14 May 2018, 6:27 pm

Surely this a troll thread?

Or is this typical of the type threads that L&D is notorious for


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14 May 2018, 6:41 pm

This guy thinks he's ugly for some reason---like he has warts all over his face or something. Or he's the Hunchback of Notre Dame.

I don't know if he ever posted a picture of himself.



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14 May 2018, 6:52 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
This guy thinks he's ugly for some reason---like he has warts all over his face or something. Or he's the Hunchback of Notre Dame.

I don't know if he ever posted a picture of himself.


Yeah he has , he asked if he looked Swedish


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14 May 2018, 6:53 pm

white_as_snow wrote:
dont want guys who are like that, how then can there be any hope for those type of guys? for sure normal women dont want them either.

how come guys even normal guys accept all kind of women but women only accept guys who are attractive, have big social status and no mental illness? how is this fair? why all this demands on guys?

why do a fat woman with no friends get accepted but not a fat man with no friends?

Why do you think that all fat women with low social status and mental illness are accepted but no men of the equivalent are accepted? If this were to be even remotely the case, the only thing I think you could reasonably conclude is that women for the most part place more importance on their partner having decent employment than the other way around, which is likely the result of both how gender roles have evolved over the years and probably biology too.

If you're finding you're unsuccessful in attracting a partner, it is incumbent on you to change that, and unless you are indeed the hunchback of Notre Dame, the likelihood is it's not outside of the realm of possibility for you to do that, and while it's easier to throw up your hands and give up, that's going to work against you in finding a partner.



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14 May 2018, 6:57 pm

I saw a rather thin, sort of pale and wan older man with a very attractive younger woman today.

They were kissing each other on the subway train.

He was by no means "the cat's meow."



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14 May 2018, 7:01 pm

with this sort of thoughts, i'm sure the fact you are fat, ugly and have no friends isn't the main problem you are not attracting woman. you don't attract woman because you hate them thanks to your entitlement and lack of empathy.



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14 May 2018, 7:03 pm

One of the most beautiful women I know is married to a man whose outer features could only be described as "very homely". They are the happiest couple I have ever met, married for years and it's a real soul and heart relationship. They are wonderful neighbours, wonderful community partipants. That beautiful woman (inside and out) could have married anyone she chose. She chose him, and she chose very well. They enriched each other's deepest selves.



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14 May 2018, 7:05 pm

i used to feel sorry and empathize a lot with guys who were lonely because i'm a lonely person too. i'm not exactly attractive because i'm fat and have poor social abilities. but honestly i started feel that a lot of you guys deserve to be lonely? you can't empathize with woman, you don't even care to try. you just see the conventionally attractive woman you resent and act like this is all woman that exist. even them, you can't really see as a nuanced human beings. they are just a thing you feel entitled for.