Just because you're single doesn't mean you're loveless.
Like, the last 5 pages??? Are you trolling or what?
As I said I don't care about your philosophy unless you try to impose it on others, then I might get a bit less tolerant.
Perhaps you didn't notice that you were the one who started the animosity.
I will not respond to any of your provocations anymore after this merely because I see that some nice people want to be back on thread, otherwise I'd have no problem going on calling out your bs for the next 50 years.
Dude you're dissecting my sex life across multiple threads with Booyakasha. It's creepy.
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If you're talking about me I've had plenty of dates/hookups, just never been in a relationship in my life.
no, i don't even know your name i didn't know we were friends lol
some other friend
I thought you were simply phrasing that to reference me is all.
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No for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.
I remember being a virgin at 22, when I used fall over myself and bend over backwards for a chance at sex. Until I lost my virginity to an escort in 2005. Between then and 2017, I had sex with 36 escorts. Tall, short, petite, full-figured, 21, 51, blonde, brunette, redhead, mainstream, fetishist, I've been with them all! One time, in 2010, I even had a threesome with two bisexual escorts; I came close to calling off work next morning, and it took two weeks to stop smiling! By contrast, I had sex for free 5 times, first time in 2007, and they were all quite meh.
In 2017, I developed a massive aversion to sex, to the point of being disgusted by it. Even porn disgusts me now. It was caused by seeing people get into relationships (which means sex) that are like prisons, nothing related to my escort habit. (Which was dangerous too, since I put in a lot of effort into dodging the police.) As a result, I feel how many aspie men wish they could feel: completely apathetic toward sex, if not outright disgusted by it. Unfortunately, the only way to reach that state, is after having sex enough times to treat as a closed chapter in life.
I wouldn't really say that about myself. Some people spend so much time with technology that we don't really care one way or another.
I'm just happy there are people in my life at all.
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Hmm, I wouldn't call it a "closed chapter," more like... "level unlocked," - and you can go back and play it anytime you want to - if you want to, but at least you've achieved it kind of thing.
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Thanks. I appreciate that.
I'd like to add that this forum has also helped me see things better from a man's point of view when it comes to dating and I really do think that's helped me be more understanding... but there's a line.
Thanks. I appreciate that.
I'd like to add that this forum has also helped me see things better from a man's point of view when it comes to dating and I really do think that's helped me be more understanding... but there's a line.
Indeed it is interesting to see other people's viewpoints.
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Some of us require said better reason(s) in the first place.
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Oh sorry I didn't think Aspie1 or I was implying that, to me it's more a matter of needing lots of time around someone before I even go near the subject.
Though as your thread says that in no way affects the mutual good parts of my life. If it does, that's just societal conditioning.
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You're right. I'm not the type who needs to get to know the woman well before having sex with her. I never was. It's just that back in my 20's, sex felt hot, interesting, and exciting, every single time. Today in my 30's, the idea of sex feels disgusting, both escort and free. I don't even like kissing anymore, unless I'm really drunk. The only interactions with women I still enjoy are hugs, holding hands, and dancing.
That said, my mindset is hard to understand if you haven't had a lot of sex in your young years. I don't mean to rub it in anyone's face. But my statement still stands.
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You're right. I'm not the type who needs to get to know the woman well before having sex with her. I never was. It's just that back in my 20's, sex felt hot, interesting, and exciting, every single time. Today in my 30's, the idea of sex feels disgusting, both escort and free. I don't even like kissing anymore, unless I'm really drunk. The only interactions with women I still enjoy are hugs, holding hands, and dancing.
That said, my mindset is hard to understand if you haven't had a lot of sex in your young years. I don't mean to rub it in anyone's face. But my statement still stands.
I’ve had WAY more sex than you and still find your mindset hard to understand.
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No for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.
My reply in the mod thread pertaining to this topic:
Yesterday was my birthday, so I didn't feel like delving into forum drama.
Upon review, the thread in question appears to have gotten itself back-on-track, so I'm letting it stand (for now). As for who started what, there are no innocent parties. Everyone contributed in some way to the brouhaha in some fashion, so I suggest everyone get over their collective butthurt.
That is all.
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I've been single and loveless all my life.
I never had a girl interested in me, at least not in that way. Women always blow me off and not in a nice way.
I'm becoming 99 years old in a few months and I'm still a virgin.
In all my 99 years of existence I never even touched a girl or been in a girl's personal space: no sex, no kissing, no hugging, no holding hands with a female...nothing! absolutely zero intimacy with anyone.
This world can be pretty loveless and cruel to some people. I learned this many times ago.
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