Pros and Cons of Dating You

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pros:

i probably won't kill you

i can drive

creative i suppose (idk)

open minded

i listen and am always willing to talk.

no one will take me from you

i like to travel to places.

cons:

you could do so much better

i'm hopelessly attached to and fixated on another girl.

hardly have an income.

have crippling shyness and am generally awkward

not very good looking

require immense amounts of constant attention to keep me from becoming a suicidal mess and losing all hope

don't have my own place, live with my parents

probably won't ever move out

i gave one friend who you'll find more attractive

very difficult to keep me happy because i invalidate and diminish every good thing that happens to me

clingy

hard to read

find it difficult to open up....


why bother lol.

Objectively speaking, these are kinda general pros and cons; they are in fact, subjective qualities that may appeal to some people. I haven't been in a serious relationship, so I don't know what can be supplemented by actual experience. Some of these cons might be pros to some people.

Pros:
+ Old-fashioned romantic
+ Creative presents
+ Affectionate
+ Loyal
+ Independent
+ Not overtly clingy
+ Domesticated (I can cook well, and clean fairly often)

Cons:
- Fairly misanthropic
- Not socially outgoing
- Can go long periods of time without contact
- Neurotic
- Anxiety issues
- Periodic bouts of depression
- Impatient

Pros: I'll never leave you
Cons: I'm poly, can you handle that....?

Pros:
Incredibly supportive
I can bake
Wouldn't hurt a fly
Really chilled out and easy going most the time
Passionate and caring
If I really like you, I'll show it (without taking it too far)

Cons:
I have a tendency to expect the worst
Straight Edge, so I don't drink (I don't see that as a con, but I reckon most people do)
Hate the concept of clubbing
Can't always tell if someone's joking, sarcasm can go right over my head
Not the best at reading other people
Not the most outgoing of people

I do hurt flies, but I expect someone at any time to tell me what a coward I am, because I don't have the balls to try to do the same to a tiger, a bear or maybe themself.

pros
-im smart, funny and cute

cons
-im a smartass
-either over sarcastic or don't get sarcasm
-i'm still cute tho

oh i also have wifi but no wife as auto correct suggested me to write...

Pros:

-empathetic
-kind
-good listener
-reasonably intelligent
-decent sense of humor

Cons:

-crazy!
-broke
-shy
-stubborn
-still trying to figure life out at 34
-crazy ex
-service dog

Pros:
I'm a hopeless romantic, I love poetry and words of affection. I just want to do stuff with the other person.

I am sociable, well read, and always have something interesting to talk about

I am great in bed, I am extremely sexually adventurous and into BDSM

I have a lot of hobbies, including: art, philosophy, and writing. My imagination never ends.

I will be loyal and serve you to the best of my ability

Cons:
I make people feel lazy and probably minuscule with my ambition. I have a lot of it and I notice people get really bitter with me. I just don't let anything stop me from achieving, or trying to achieve, an opportunity.

I am a green eyed monster, I have a lot of jealousy and trust issues when it comes to loyalty with the other partner. I get jealous as well when people give compliments to other girls.

Idealistically, I still believe in true love, and I desire loyalty and comfortable companionship.

I am a masochist, I require extra effort in the sex department because of this.

I can be sassy and mean to people, but I see it as just being selective and having refined taste (I tend to be a little snobby)

I have 900 mill in Runescape, as you can see i'm a millionaire. that's why the ladies should love me. You can live in my poh I have 99 construction