Can’t cope with people

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Am I the only one? I don’t feel I can do anything right, because there is lots of other things to think about when With people.

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People trigger me into doing all sorts of craziness, so I prefer being alone. I feel saner that way.

I feel everybody here, at one time or another, has difficulty coping with people.

I was misanthropic for a while due to bulling, getting screwed over by society in various ways, & due to thinking of them as mostly caring about popularity. I didn't feel that way anymore after learning about Aspergers & how to better deal with things, & my depression & frustration in life lifting. I think I was playing the blame game.

Certain people only care about popularity.....I avoid those. The rest of the NTs are cool.

If a person doesn’t like my Inner Wolf, Tough Nuggies!

Dealing with people is just too exhausting most of the time. They are too complicated. I'd rather be with my cats.

Yes.

But not much about what they think and do per se, or who they are -- as a human person first, with their expectations, thoughts, feelings, preferences, or even their names. I don't 'cope' with what's in them.

It's their presence. Physical presence. As a human body first moving about. To me, if I shift on how take account of things this way, it counts as an occupied space that I have to avoid, like how I must avoid bumping to a pole. Except human behavior can interfere and unpredictable, unlike objects.



Their physical presence and behavior itself is more jarring to me, than themselves as people with thoughts and feelings.

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People are too complicated. I often just say nothing and get on with my day hoping to be left alone.