Do NT's spend all their time socializing and hating Aspies?

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It sounds like you need to maybe get some help with your self esteem issues and depression. I mean seems like you have had it pretty rough, I mean when I was a kid I at least had my siblings and some cousins who I got along with alright. My parents did care of course they could have done a better job raising me and my siblings probably but they argued a lot and got a bit caught up in that until finally getting a divorce. Some years I made a few friends but we moved like every year so never developed any lasting friendships.

I mean from the sound of it you didn't have parents that tried to be supportive. That is bound to screw someone up and make them feel like everyone is against them.

You need a therapist at the very least. I mean I certainly feel a lot better about myself since I have gotten some help with my issues...though before I did I was convinced nothing could help me and that everyone had a problem with me or if they didn't already they would develop one.

If I were you even though you may not have experienced a specific traumatic event I'd look into meeting with a trauma therapist. I mean bullying like that I think is similar to a big trauma it's just a longer lasting slower trauma than one big life threatening thing all at once.

It's all about how someone comes across. NT's might not know what Aspergers, Anxiety or anything like that is.

See it this way, is someone tries socialising with someone who can't think of anything to say and has no input in the conversation, that person will be seen as boring and perhaps rude.

If someone is nervous, making jumpy movements, etc, that person will be seen as perhaps unpredictable, odd and maybe even on drugs.

It's as simple as that really. From experience there is no agenda there or anything. People get 1 shot when meeting new people, if they come across as what I said above in this post, that's it, that person will have that impression of you.

All the OP does is repeat himself over and over in his posts, getting us to believe that we're all better than "them", all because of some bad personal experiences he's encountered. He's just another one of those "us vs them" Aspies.

It's actually starting to offend me, because I have a large family of (mostly) NTs and my colleagues are NTs, plus my boyfriend is NT and so is his family, and a lot of friends and other people I know are NTs.
And don't try the "oh you think they like you but they actually don't because they are all fakers" thing on me because it ain't gonna work. I know my own life, thank you.

Also I don't know why the OP always adds in brackets "non-autistics/Asperger people" when mentioning NTs. Yeah, as if a person with severe learning disabilities and very low IQ who requires 24-hour care because they can't function by themselves are neurotypicals.

The OP needs to be educated with a trip to care homes, mental hospitals and MENCAP groups. It's not just autistics that are challenged, there are lots of other neurological disorders that can affect a person's social performance even though it's not the same as autism.

Not all NTs are like that. My sister's typical and she's a very nice person. All of her friends are nice as well. They're all Sweet Peas in my eyes.

Please get some therapy to fix your deluded way of thinking.

2 of my close friends are NT and are nothing like what you claim "all NT's are like"! To be completely and brutally honest, it's no wonder why nobody wants to be in your company, be they autistic or NT. I certainly wouldn't.