Tala_mul wrote:
Hello everyone I’m looking for a ghosting situation I’m dealing with. I also apologize I’m new to this as well. The guy I’m dating has Aspergers and I’m not sure how to go about this.
The last day we hung out together he seemed stressed out and he wasn’t as affectionate. But we still spent the day together and caught up on a show we’ve been watching. He even asked me to come over that day. The next day I sent him a text and I expressed how much I appreciated him and told him that I liked him. I didn’t get a response after that. A week after I sent that text I checked in and asked how he was, then finally a last text letting him know that I hoped he was okay and to text me whenever.
It’s been two months now. And the answer should be clear. But I have this itching feeling that I should reach out one more time. He also still has my video game too and I don’t know if I should use that as an opportunity to open up a conversation.
TLDR: Dating guy for 3 months everything was fine until I sent a text about how I felt. Seeing if I should reach out.
It was my experience (as the NT) that Aspie guy I had been dating at one time for 3 months wasn't actually that interested but wanted to avoid confrontation about splitting up, so he just ghosted me and hoped I would get the hint.
Said Aspie guy had some of my stuff too, so I forced him to face up to his responsibility to me. I was polite but straight forward, went over to his place when I knew he was there, told him I was disappointed in him and his behavior, got my stuff back and left.
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01 Aug 2018, 7:38 pm
for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.
