Women That Like to Play the Field

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10 Aug 2018, 9:07 am

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Do you really apply everything you preach?


Certainly. But I cannot do it in retrospect. :mrgreen:


Is your wife reading all this?

We would like to speak with her, for once.


Maybe a lot of it doesn't relate to her?

It might even be that the woman that most of what I write does relate to, actually is reading the site. However, I doubt she will involve in the discussion.



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When I was young it was one at a time. After my divorce I moved for my work to a small town in another province. It was about an hours drive to a big city, one to the east and one to the west. I dated men from both cities and also went out to dinner with another man if he was in town. We all knew we saw other people at times. It was a mixture of friendship and a bit of romance. .



Yeah this ^^. Now that I am going thru a divorce I think the best way to stop fixating on someone and making a hasty decision is to date multiple people until I find someone.


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11 Aug 2018, 3:42 pm

I prefer to be the field.



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11 Aug 2018, 6:13 pm

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I prefer to be the field.


field you become


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11 Aug 2018, 6:13 pm

with field at one at last


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11 Aug 2018, 6:14 pm

one is the field and the field is one


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11 Aug 2018, 6:17 pm

....but what if the field plays you?


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11 Aug 2018, 8:38 pm

Pjscrab wrote:
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When I was young it was one at a time. After my divorce I moved for my work to a small town in another province. It was about an hours drive to a big city, one to the east and one to the west. I dated men from both cities and also went out to dinner with another man if he was in town. We all knew we saw other people at times. It was a mixture of friendship and a bit of romance. .



Yeah this ^^. Now that I am going thru a divorce I think the best way to stop fixating on someone and making a hasty decision is to date multiple people until I find someone.


And I did meet the Someone, but it took six years for us to move in together and then marry.



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12 Aug 2018, 3:50 am

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And I did meet the Someone, but it took six years for us to move in together and then marry.


That sounds pretty ok for somebody neurodiverse.



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12 Aug 2018, 5:07 am

wrong thread oops



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12 Aug 2018, 10:06 am

AnneOleson wrote:
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When I was young it was one at a time. After my divorce I moved for my work to a small town in another province. It was about an hours drive to a big city, one to the east and one to the west. I dated men from both cities and also went out to dinner with another man if he was in town. We all knew we saw other people at times. It was a mixture of friendship and a bit of romance. .






Yeah this ^^. Now that I am going thru a divorce I think the best way to stop fixating on someone and making a hasty decision is to date multiple people until I find someone.


And I did meet the Someone, but it took six years for us to move in together and then marry.



That’s great!! Good for you!

I guess taking the time is more important. My marriage was a hasty one and it taught me never to rush in.


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12 Aug 2018, 10:07 am

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wrong thread oops



Totally. Your first post scared me haha!


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12 Aug 2018, 10:41 am

Gallia wrote:
one is the field and the field is one


'I am one with the field , the field is with me".

'I am one with the field , the field is with me".

'I am one with the field , the field is with me".



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12 Aug 2018, 10:43 am

Pjscrab wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
wrong thread oops



Totally. Your first post scared me haha!



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