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06 Sep 2018, 6:58 pm

XFilesGeek wrote:
As a butch woman who often gets mistaken for an effeminate man, I can say that being a "fem" man is a huge PITA.


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06 Sep 2018, 7:28 pm

Mark, I don't feel that XFiles hates you. Why should she?



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06 Sep 2018, 7:36 pm

I'm pretty sure nobody said that. XFG was referring to her own perspective if I understood correctly.

I'm on board with this being a major annoyance though at least there's something more about me women can identify with.


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08 Sep 2018, 8:13 am

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Wow! That really changes things! You should date tall girls. Too tall is a date breaker for MEN.

Not for me! I find 6 foot plus girls very attractive!


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08 Sep 2018, 9:20 am

And too short is a deal breaker for women. I highly doubt the man rejects the woman for being too tall anywhere near as often as the woman rejects the man for being too short.


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09 Sep 2018, 7:11 am

I'll admit I'm more attracted to petite women but that was never something I factored in when looking for a girlfriend. My current girlfriend is close to my height & that doesn't bother me & I don't think a taller girl would bother me either.


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09 Sep 2018, 4:54 pm

I know a short Italian guy who's had more women than I ever will.


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