How to talk to girls at work

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What's the easiest thing to talk about? I find it hard to keep a conversation going with anyone?

What's the easiest topic to discuss with people at work?

Work.

Even easier: shut up and work, at least while they let you.

Neat places you went to on your vacation.

Or ask them where they went on vacation.

^^^Great idea!

I’d expect to be told to mind my own goddamn business.

As an approach? Say somthing nice about her work and about seeing her. Don't forget to look at her eyes and to smile friendly - even with your eyes - and never look away before she does. Girls have beautiful eyes you should enjoy them! Try to feel as positive about being near to her and seeing her at this time as you can. If she prevents eye contact and looks away then skip any further step because she is not interested in you at all. Otherwise she reads you empathically that causes her to feel the same way about you as you do for her. That should be as positive and attracted to her as possible. Keep the eye contact as long as you talk to her! If the conversation stops ask about her education and her special skills or where she comes from or about her spare time activities aso. Ask for interesting details. Don't talk about you unless she asks. If she seems a little bit interested in you then suggest to meet somewhere after work. Good luck!

Talk about your shared interests.

I really wouldn't recommend trying to date anyone where you work. It's just not a good idea. The old saying "don't sh*t where you eat" holds very true.

Unless you don’t plan on making your a career of your job at the same company or you are incredibly confident in damage control should things not go your way? I’d say still to talking about work, and if you are on a friendly enough level do the basics - talk about each other’s weekend, ask questions about what they’ve told you then perhaps divert the conversation to any related hobbies.

Women at work in around town don’t want me to look at them non less soeach to them, I’m not good enough for any of their time and they know it.
I don’t talk to any unless addressed first(rarely ever happens) and I look down and away when they come near

Dating people at work can be a double-edged sword. On the plus side, it can let you get to know people in a casual manner, without the pressure of going on a date with them. On the downside, though, personal issues can be brought to work, there can be favoritism, and if things go bad, at the very least it can become uncomfortable, and at the worst, it can become a big nightmare.

If someone is planning on dating anyone from work, I would suggest at least finding someone that works in a different dept. (that you won't see everyday). The same goes for dating people around your neighborhood, as well (dating the lady across the hall, in an apartment complex, is probably a bad idea ).

Then your question shouldn't be "How to talk to girls at work", it should be "How to talk to people everywhere".

Don't feel bad about it because this is a very common problem for us guys. So common Rick Springfield did a song about it

Talk about the weather lol