Marknis wrote:
BeaArthur wrote:
Marknis wrote:
My cousin recently told me she doesn't want me to have a girlfriend.
Okay, level with me here. Did your cousin say "I don't want you to have a girlfriend" - really in those words? Or did you
interpret something she said as meaning she didn't want you to? I'm thinking it's the latter.
She said, "Mark, you don't need a girlfriend."...
Ah-HAH!! There it is!
"You don't need a girlfriend" does
NOT mean
"I don't want you to have a girlfriend"!You WANT a girlfriend, which is normal and perfectly alright.
You do not NEED a girlfriend, no matter how strongly you want one.
In fact, NOBODY
needs a girlfriend! Or a boyfriend. Or any kind of 'friend' (i.e., canary, cat, dog, et cetera).
Unless someone literally tells you that he or she does not want you to have a girlfriend, you have absolutely no reason to believe that they don't want you to have a girlfriend!
"I don't care if you have a girlfriend" also does not mean "I don't want you to have a girlfriend."
Do you understand now?
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