Amity wrote:
I know here in Ireland sport and exercise play the main role in helping that mind-body wellness.
Stability/health are attractive in any person... I'm wondering if there are ways to support autistic men to achieve this.
Diet & exercise apply to humans all over the globe. The thing with autistic men is that they've got to want to do these things for themselves & their goals for their personal reasons. Maybe they want camaraderie with teammates? Maybe they want to attract a girlfriend? Maybe they just went to be fit and healthy? Maybe they want their brains and bodies to function better? Maybe they want to ward off depression/anxiety? etc. Whatever the reason, if it's not the autistic man's goal/reason, chances are he's not going to do anything. It doesn't matter how much logical, rational, sense it might make for him to diet and exercise - autistic men are super humanly stubborn. If he doesn't want to do something he's Not going to do it. He may even agree that it's a good idea and that he should do it, but then the follow through is almost never there and he won't ever get started or make it a part of his routine..
unless he really wants to.The trick is to find out what he's motivated by and then push those buttons and let it be "his," decision to do things for himself and "his," reason(s). That is, if you can figure out how to gently sell him on the idea.
For myself, someone I had a crush on and really respect told me what kind of physical fitness level they're attracted to in a guy and my thought process was something like, "Well, I want to attract you or someone like you, so, I'll get in shape." Also, I did it & do it for brain function. (Reminds me, I really should go for a run later this week.) I do it for other things, too, like functional strength, self defence/protecting others.. oh, and because I like hooking up with 21 year olds and I don't have a Million dollars.
_________________
No
for supporting trump. Because doing so is deplorable.