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SaveFerris
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23 Oct 2018, 5:44 am

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This is schocking . He was always so nice to people in haven.


The same was said about the person who did it to me , in fact so much so that I was not believed at first.

It just goes to show that just because a member appears ok in their public posts it doesn't mean that they won't flip when in PM's ( where they are out of view )


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23 Oct 2018, 9:51 am

Well I got lucky because I have never heard of this person nor do I even recognize him.


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23 Oct 2018, 10:06 am

SaveFerris wrote:
sly279 wrote:
This is schocking . He was always so nice to people in haven.


The same was said about the person who did it to me , in fact so much so that I was not believed at first.

It just goes to show that just because a member appears ok in their public posts it doesn't mean that they won't flip when in PM's ( where they are out of view )

Yeah, I saw similar years ago, back when I was a forum mod (just a geek coding site, so much less tricky than here!) It's a convenient way to gaslight people - "It must be you that's cranky, everyone else thinks I'm lovely, just go look at my posts." FWIW, I thought LLW's posts were a bit over-familiar sometimes, but I wouldn't have suspected anything so abusive from his posts alone.

And big hugs to the mods for dealing with this, and for the way that you've dealt with it. One of the reasons I've stuck with WP is how well you look after us compared to the mod's on some other autism websites.


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26 Oct 2018, 3:42 pm

Big hugs back!

Update: I've contacted Alex about all this and he said that IP alone and the exact time sent should be enough, so hopefully it'll be like that.



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28 Oct 2018, 10:11 am

I've noticed a few frequent posters have disappeared earlier this month, and I wonder if that was LLW's doing =(


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28 Oct 2018, 10:44 pm

Thank you for keeping us safe. You're all a pod of Sweet Peas. :P


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02 Dec 2018, 9:33 pm

Wait.....WHAT?????
I only just saw this...
I dont understand....he was always so nice. He used to PM me all the time. I knew he had left because he switched to emailing me directly, but I hadnt realized he was kicked off...8O


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02 Dec 2018, 11:37 pm

graceksjp wrote:
Wait.....WHAT?????
I only just saw this...
I dont understand....he was always so nice. He used to PM me all the time. I knew he had left because he switched to emailing me directly, but I hadnt realized he was kicked off...8O


Don't reach out to him , he's not well and can't be trusted


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03 Dec 2018, 5:18 am

graceksjp wrote:
Wait.....WHAT?????
I only just saw this...
I dont understand....he was always so nice. He used to PM me all the time. I knew he had left because he switched to emailing me directly, but I hadnt realized he was kicked off...8O


Hi Grace, So sorry this has been such a shock. He always was nice to you, that is true, but please take heed of the warnings. I am concerned that you say he is emailing you directly. I am not just acting on hearsay, this is a serious warning. You are a lovely sweet girl, not one to think the worse of people, but please listen to Ferris. PM me if you like, or PM one of the mods.


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03 Dec 2018, 8:11 am

What feelio and ferris have said - you're not the only one he's been mailing; half of the mods too. In fact half of the forum.

if you want to see what kind of monstrosity he's capable of messaging, I can forward to you a message he's sent to cca 10 people here (we all got a variation of it). Please don't fall for the sweet words, he's psychopathic and capable of manipulation and guilt-tripping with suicide.



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03 Dec 2018, 4:36 pm

I don't think I've ever interacted with LoneLoyalWolf.



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03 Dec 2018, 4:43 pm

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I don't think I've ever interacted with LoneLoyalWolf.
Me neither


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03 Dec 2018, 4:56 pm

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if you want to see what kind of monstrosity he's capable of messaging, I can forward to you a message he's sent to cca 10 people here (we all got a variation of it).

I'm kind of curious to see it, if that's okay. I still can't picture it at all.


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03 Dec 2018, 5:01 pm

i think it's time we look at rule 3 and put this issue behind us. :mrgreen:

further discussion may be better suited for PM.

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3. Other inappropriate content and behavior prohibited on Wrong Planet:
This includes copyrighted material, serial codes, and posts made to promote a website, group or product, particularly if made repeatedly and without other participation in the WP community (spamming). This also includes discussion of locked topics, discussion of banned members and why they were banned and anything else that purposely causes conflict with other members.


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03 Dec 2018, 5:15 pm

SabbraCadabra wrote:
Booyakasha wrote:
if you want to see what kind of monstrosity he's capable of messaging, I can forward to you a message he's sent to cca 10 people here (we all got a variation of it).

I'm kind of curious to see it, if that's okay. I still can't picture it at all.


i'll send you in a PM the whole message I got from him.