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Aspie1
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09 Nov 2018, 8:31 pm

novart wrote:
I know from experience that only encourages it with them, unfortunately. Not that I can really stomach it too much anymore. I feel like it's giving me too much credit but I do have that "social insight" to see how that game works, you are absolutely right.
It's better to "encourage them", than to give them weapons to use against you. Most therapists, if you don't talk or act in ways that match their training, will label you "difficult" or "resistant". And quiet likely, will try to retaliate somehow, by berating you or forcing you to discuss uncomfortable topics. All to "help you", of course :roll:. Not to mention, it's almost impossible to shake off the "difficult" or "resistant" label.

So yeah, just keep appeasing them by regurgitating the things they look for. It's the only way an aspie child can survive in "family" therapy.



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09 Nov 2018, 8:40 pm

You solve problems of injustice with lawyers, never therapists.

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