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24 Jul 2021, 7:45 pm

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I was the same, and circumstances do/can change. The trick here is to not have high expectations and "let it be"

had a "false alarm" a few years ago, a WPer literally fell into my lap. but she was too youthful and i was too old. i'm well-past my sell-by date.


Ironically when I was 35 I dated a 23 yr old Asian girl and she was really cute (into fluffy pokemons and girly things). Despite her really being into me, the problem I was painfully aware that we had nothing in common, mostly because she was still childlike. Her interests were school aged. I broke it off.[/quote]

Yeah I hate it when I date girls who are ultra girly. It works so much better when I date girls who are into traditionally boy things.


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24 Jul 2021, 8:37 pm

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Yeah I hate it when I date girls who are ultra girly. It works so much better when I date girls who are into traditionally boy things.


When I hit my 30s I realised I had a lot of pulling power over girls that I hadn't used because in my 20s I was full of principles and integrity. I did hang out with an 18 yr old when I was in my early 30s but honestly couldn't bring myself to do anything. I realised I was a man-bag for her as her friends were astonished she was friends with a 30 yr old man so she was showing off. But she was so naive and dumb....I just couldn't. One time we were in a club and there were scantily clad go-go dancers. She started giggling as they were gyrating and wanted to see them. She was jumping up and down like a kid. I thought it was weird, but she was just being a teenager. That's when it hit me, what the heck am I doing!

But by 35 I wanted a psychologically compatible partner. That mean't finding a girl my age.



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24 Jul 2021, 9:09 pm

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But by 35 I wanted a psychologically compatible partner. That mean't finding a girl my age.

In my case that would mean creating a female clone of myself. Even then we would probably quarrel.


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24 Jul 2021, 9:34 pm

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But by 35 I wanted a psychologically compatible partner. That mean't finding a girl my age.

In my case that would mean creating a female clone of myself. Even then we would probably quarrel.


It doesn't mean finding a clone. My wife is different to me but she's mature enough to accept our differences and that our differences compliment each other.

An 18-21 yr old has no hope of having that level of emotional intelligence.



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11 Aug 2021, 1:51 am

Well there women I know and that I have met who seem like they would almost screw anything. I do not mean this as an insult or judgment on them at all, when I say that; I am just saying if there are women out there like that, then why are incels having so much trouble therefore?



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11 Aug 2021, 1:55 am

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Well there women I know and that I have met who seem like they would almost screw anything. I do not mean this as an insult or judgment on them at all, when I say that; I am just saying if there are women out there like that, then why are incels having so much trouble therefore?


We need to somehow bring these two groups together and there'll be one less problem in the world.



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11 Aug 2021, 1:56 am

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Well there women I know and that I have met who seem like they would almost screw anything. I do not mean this as an insult or judgment on them at all, when I say that; I am just saying if there are women out there like that, then why are incels having so much trouble therefore?

because many incels are on the spectrum, and many on the spectrum lack theory-of-mind/social intelligence which means they can't decode the non-verbal interest signals that women put out.



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11 Aug 2021, 5:27 am

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ironpony wrote:
Well there women I know and that I have met who seem like they would almost screw anything. I do not mean this as an insult or judgment on them at all, when I say that; I am just saying if there are women out there like that, then why are incels having so much trouble therefore?


We need to somehow bring these two groups together and there'll be one less problem in the world.


Then they'll just complain they don't feel special enough. :roll:


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11 Aug 2021, 5:44 am

just as a public service, i must announce that no female out there will "screw just about anything." i am living proof. now there are many men that WILL screw just about anything, ambulatory or not, given the chance.



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11 Aug 2021, 5:50 am

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just as a public service, i must announce that no female out there will "screw just about anything." i am living proof. now there are many men that WILL screw just about anything, ambulatory or not, given the chance.


Don't femcels dispell that notion?


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11 Aug 2021, 6:27 am

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just as a public service, i must announce that no female out there will "screw just about anything." i am living proof. now there are many men that WILL screw just about anything, ambulatory or not, given the chance.


Don't femcels dispell that notion?

from what you just made me read and study about, i would guess they are precisely not the ones that would screw anybody, given the fact of my point above. they have standards, but i don't begrudge them that, they have a lot more riding on it than men do.



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11 Aug 2021, 6:29 am

auntblabby wrote:
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auntblabby wrote:
just as a public service, i must announce that no female out there will "screw just about anything." i am living proof. now there are many men that WILL screw just about anything, ambulatory or not, given the chance.


Don't femcels dispell that notion?

from what you just made me read and study about, i would guess they are precisely not the ones that would screw anybody, given the fact of my point above. they have standards, but i don't begrudge them that, they have a lot more riding on it than men do.


I'm not saying femcels would screw anyone, I'm saying the fact that they exist means apparently there's women who also run into the issue of no takers, so the notion that guys will f**k anything warm isn't true.


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11 Aug 2021, 9:25 am

But the women I know who would screw almost anything, actually do have takers. They get laid. Sure the caliber is not high at all, but they still get it, so I thought why don't incel men just go for these types then?



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11 Aug 2021, 7:51 pm

There's no such person as an incel (lowercase) woman. Hence, Incel (uppercase) communities for women don't exist. A woman can get sex with a little more than a snap of her fingers: going to a bar, waiting to be approached, and saying yes. That's it!

And even incel women are still attracted to only the top 20% of men. It's evolutionary biology, no more, no less. It's literally impossible for them to desire the bottom 80% of men. Therefore, incel men are basically SOL, unless they turn to escort services like I did. I'm pretty sure the escorts I sexed found me disgusting. But they did a good job of putting up a facade of liking me, and they were good sports about my sexual quirks (like the way I French kissed them). So hey, I ain't complaining.



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11 Aug 2021, 8:00 pm

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There's no such person as an incel (lowercase) woman. Hence, Incel (uppercase) communities for women don't exist. A woman can get sex with a little more than a snap of her fingers: going to a bar, waiting to be approached, and saying yes. That's it!


And yet femcels exist, which throws your hypothesis that women can always find a partner into question. :wink:


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11 Aug 2021, 8:11 pm

funeralxempire wrote:
Aspie1 wrote:
There's no such person as an incel (lowercase) woman. Hence, Incel (uppercase) communities for women don't exist. A woman can get sex with a little more than a snap of her fingers: going to a bar, waiting to be approached, and saying yes. That's it!
And yet femcels exist, which throws your hypothesis that women can always find a partner into question.
You can ignore him, because any claims he presents without evidence can be dismissed without evidence.


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