Kitty4670 wrote:
Ichinin wrote:
Everyone is different, some will go nuts if you write too early, some won't. Some will take it as an interest, and some will see you as needy.
When i write to a girl, i wait 24 hours, if she haven't answered by then (and she has been online since then), i guess she's not interested and block her to prevent wasting more time.
You are right, everyone is different. When I met this guy, I wrote some messages to him, he was ok with it. Other times he came online without talking to me, I wrote to him asking do you still want to talk to me, he replied to me telling me he want to talk to me still, but that was 3 days ago. Maybe I screwed things up, I can do that, I’m not very good with men.
Give it some time, you got someone to talk to. There may be a reason why he isn't messaging you, he may be on a business trip, down with the flu, lost his internet access or whatever. Drop a message in a week and check what he is up to.
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