Would you date a shorter guy / taller girl?

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Lucian Hodoboc
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01 Dec 2018, 11:50 am

If you are a guy, would you date a girl who was considerably taller than you?

If you are a girl, would you date a guy who was considerably shorter than you?

By considerably, I mean that they'd have to lean over or you'd have to stand on your tiptoes to kiss while standing.

Why or why not? Let's discuss. :wink:



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01 Dec 2018, 12:04 pm

No way. It just feels... wrong. All my instincts say that I need to be taller and stronger.



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01 Dec 2018, 12:39 pm

One of my best relationships, he was 4 inches shorter than me. My last one he ws probably an inch or two shorter? We never checked.

I've never really cared about height



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01 Dec 2018, 1:46 pm

Height is not important to me so i'd have no problem being with a girl who's taller than me.


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01 Dec 2018, 3:14 pm

Absolutely! I'm just as attracted to 6'3" UConn basketball star Katie Lou Samuelson as I am 5'1" Canadian Olympic gold medal figure skater Gabrielle Daleman. Height has never mattered to me.



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01 Dec 2018, 3:20 pm

I'm a petite lady anyway so most men would be taller than me.

If a guy was shorter, it wouldn't be a problem! if I was attracted to him and loved him then that wouldn't matter, generally though women do tend to go for taller men but men are generally taller anyway. I'd settle for a man that's closer in age and share similar values, hobbies and interest and theirs mutual love and respect and trust, rather then make finding a man that's taller or aesthetics a priority. It's hard enough as it is to find someone that's sincere and genuine.



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01 Dec 2018, 8:02 pm

I would probably prefer to date a shorter girl just because that feels more normal to me, but if she was taller, and ticked my boxes of what I want in a partner, I can't see myself turning her down.



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01 Dec 2018, 10:40 pm

Im a couple of inches taller than my husband. Even more if im wearing high heels. It’s never been a problem for us.



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01 Dec 2018, 11:46 pm

I like shorter guys.
Tall guys make me uncomfortable.


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01 Dec 2018, 11:56 pm

I SURE WOULD


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02 Dec 2018, 12:02 am

i feel a bit annoyed by people who are a lot shorter than me. even girls and it doesn't need to be love related, it makes me a bit nervous. so i guess i wouldn't date a guy who was in 150cm range. but anything over 160 is ok. (i'm 168 myself).



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03 Dec 2018, 11:08 pm

i have and i would again.

i care more about kindness and personality/disposition than height.



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04 Dec 2018, 4:27 am

I'd date any man who I thought was interested in me as long as I actually liked him. Even if I didn't think he was very good looking.


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04 Dec 2018, 6:07 am

My gf is same height as me, so she's taller with heels.



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04 Dec 2018, 10:19 am

As I am considerably shorter than the average, I don't see myself dating a shorter man. I would say somebody about the size of David Ferrer (Spanish tennis player, 5' 9") is about right for me. I wouldn't turn anyone away, however, as long as they are nice and care about me. I don't think I could handle anybody really tall (over a foot taller than I am), because that would look a bit awkward. I'd look like a little girl next to them.