Growing up both homosexual and aspergers?

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Garnettoi71
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14 Jan 2019, 9:12 am

Kind of a confusing experience really, I'd always assumed the reason I was not romantically attracted to men and unable to fall in love with them was because of my aspergers and as a consequence I'd always assumed I was asexual without really realising I was attracted to women. My mother is a very conservative religious type so I guess I just suppressed my sexuality subconsciously for the longest time before actually realising I was gay.

Is anyone else both gay and aspergers? How did you find growing up? When did you realise?



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14 Jan 2019, 10:09 am

This topic would be better-suited to the LGBT sub-forum.



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14 Jan 2019, 10:31 am

I didn't even know there was one! Thank you for informing me



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15 Jan 2019, 6:30 pm

You will find many people on WP who identify with you, and who are gay.



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Yesterday, 2:06 am

Yes.

I found growing up to be my experience growing up.. unique to me, just as everyone else' experience is unique to them.. not really sure what you want to know about that, nor what I could explain about it for you. :?

I realized I was gay when I was 4-5 years old in Kindergarten. Basically as soon as I was around a bunch of other kids my age that weren't family I realized I was attracted to certain boys, not so much girls. I realized I was on the autism spectrum when I was ~30 years old. I was out as gay to a few close friends since high school, but not out as gay to family and others until I was ~29ish after hanging out with one of my gay friends and his gay brother and their family and seeing how different life could be being out. Far less stressful & funnier with the jokes from my siblings. My parents aren't the religious conservative types.. one of my grandmother's was, though, even attending an anti-gay rally in the 90's.. but she changed her tune before she died. (I don't think she knew I was gay, but knew her great grand daughter was gay/bi)


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