cberg wrote:
I think people stereotype geeks so much that most of us are avoiding you if that's the way you see things.
I'm one myself - I've been a moderator on music DSP programming forums! So I'm unsure if maybe you have misunderstood me, or if I have misunderstood you (maybe our definitions of "geek" differ?). I made a dichotomous comparison for rhetorical effect, of course; but I don't see how the principle that one can choose to use one's knowledge constructively or destructively, guided by one's personality, can really be doubted. Surely you don't think that being "geeky" automatically makes one more saintly? Lady luck must have shone very brightly on you if you have never encountered a "geek" being condescending (you don't use Stack Overflow, I take it?
). That the rest of us get tarred with the same brush is unfortunate, but as I said, bad apples draw attention and feed the stereotypes - I like being tarred with that brush no more than you do.
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