My cheating Ex texted me on dating app

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How about this, do you feel that you have found closure?

Excellent work, Boo. Personally, it's not my style, but you have indeed helped out another potential victim. Well done!

I’m glad u showed the new guy what she is like n saved him future betrayal
However

I don’t understand why people can date strangers online after reading just some of those texts that were attached.


So much room fr bad ppl to take advantage. I know that wasn’t done here technically but it could be in a different scenario with different ppl n motives

Like serial killers could figure out a way to seem appealing n innocent n then kill you


Too confusing

Thank God fr ASD n being pretty content without that even though being immune to romance n dating is a deficiency n evidence of lack of social skills
it has its positives

My xH used to tell me his ex fiancee was a pathological liar n made up a long believable story about her cheating on him n being seen by someone else at the mall etc

At the time he was regularly calling her n refused to not pick up
He also told me she is ‘psychic’ n he is scared etc

Bunch of nonsense
After the last random outburst that I actually fr once stood up fr myself (mainly bcuz of what he was trying to do - long story) n also my mom was there to help with the newborn so she witnessed it
I contacted n later called his Ex
In detail
She told me what had actually happened n was shocked tht he had lied about her to that degree

(She was at the time fighting cancer n married)

I still wasnt aure but then he started lying about ME in detail to his own family n friends n even to my family
Believable lies except i was documenting everything

Thats why i hate liars
Essentiallt my XH is/was a pathological liar yet he made everyone else out to be that esp me
He is extremely believable n extremely manipulative even tl the detriment of his own kids he did things to try to ‘make me suffr’

which is why screenshots pictures n hour by hour documentation n witnesses were needed
So
Thats why
I totally dont mind what this user did with hos EX gf.
Liars ruin ppls lives longterm
Say if that man ended up marrying that girl because she is beautiful, lovable, charming etc
Then they had kids n she was cheating n other issues
Then not only his life but also hos kids’ lives wd be devastated by her lies (eg even if he divorced she wd do what mu XH did n try to get sole custody via lying etc)

So thats why i dont think what thiz user did was anything bad

YEAh follow the pattern
If someone had lied so much before that was probably a lie too
God i hate such ppl

I hate when ppl give liars the benefit of the doubt when it might hurt someone else

(im not saying fr ur matter. as it doesnt apply - i am going on a tangent)
A liar will need to do a lot of repenting and self improvement n making amends before they can be ‘clean’ of their addiction to lying