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StarTrekker
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13 Mar 2019, 5:37 pm

Executive functioning, specifically organizing, prioritizing and planning. My skills in these areas are so weak that I have yet to successfully hold a job for more than a year or two before getting burned out or fired. Work tasks make me so confused, and I can't figure out how everyone else seems to just "know" what they're supposed to be doing.

Sensory issues are a massive barrier for me as well; I spend most of my time alone in my room, only going out for my appointments, because the world is too painful to deal with.


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14 Mar 2019, 1:45 am

At the moment, its dating



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14 Mar 2019, 1:52 am

Being independent. Processing. Communicating. It's hard to settle on just one. It's all like a lump package.



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14 Mar 2019, 7:42 am

Executive function, foggy mind, getting tired easily.



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14 Mar 2019, 6:10 pm

At this stage of life I would say anxiety and depression or some branch off for those things.

Growing up it's hard to pin point just one thing. Other's ignorance and inability to help they way I needed was big as that has led to hampering me NOW also.


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14 Mar 2019, 8:20 pm

Executive functioning.


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14 Mar 2019, 8:29 pm

One obstacle that still haunts me today is friendship.

I am bad at knowing when I am (or am not) annoying someone. Sometimes I think I am friends with someone, but then I come to realize that the feeling wasn't mutual. Other times I get fearful that people I know or work with don't like me or are just tolerating me, so I don't ask them to hang out even though I want to.

I would like to get better at both perceiving friendship and trusting my perception.


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15 Mar 2019, 12:57 am

I would guess social awkwardness. I struggled majorly to get a romantic realtionship when i was single partly cuz of that & it's also interfered with my ability to find work. If I wasn't as awkward I would of had more friends which might of helped me with finding a girlfriend or networking to find employment. I also would of done better in job interviews. I do have other disabilities that really limit me with employment including a couple physical 1s but there are jobs I CAN do & I believe I would of had a much better shot at getting those jobs if I wasn't as awkward. Being employed more could of helped me get a girlfriend cuz I might of met one through work or just having the job would of made me seem more appealing instead of me coming off as a loser for staying home collecting disability money for doing nutin. I also would of made better impressions with women if I wasn't as awkward.


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15 Mar 2019, 10:17 am

Actually understimulation. I want to be stimulated a lot, challenged to do complex things. It leads to travelling a lot, and to hunger for information.

And autism stigma. For the rest I feel that I am very mildly autistic, in a way that I don't experience disadvantige from it.



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16 Mar 2019, 8:57 am

Weak visual spatial skills (tested to be in the 10th percentile). Having very little idea of my own strength.


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16 Mar 2019, 8:53 pm

Sound sensitivity



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17 Mar 2019, 8:26 pm

tolerating changes and anxiety



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17 Mar 2019, 9:18 pm

...Is being crippled or homeless :cry: ?


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19 Mar 2019, 11:35 pm

The fact that I don't have a filter and I can be very honest with people.


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