Things You’ve Learned About Dating Through Experience
Sweetleaf
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Age: 34
Gender: Female
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Location: Somewhere in Colorado
But when your 'boyfriend' takes you to the store in the rain, parks out in the parking lot not even near the door at all...and sends you in alone to go buy the condoms. Maybe end it right there stop having sex with him and sucking his d*ck, to save yourself the ghosting that is likely to soon follow once he's through with you.
That was years ago, but still I can't believe I didn't see it right then and there and just stop seeing him right then.
Sounds horrible he could at least dropped you off at the door
Did humor help?
Seriously that’s f****d up. Sorry that happen
Well that is what I am thinking...I mean it was bloody raining.
Its all good now because its so far in the past, but still makes me kind of mad to think about it.
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We won't go back.
But when your 'boyfriend' takes you to the store in the rain, parks out in the parking lot not even near the door at all...and sends you in alone to go buy the condoms. Maybe end it right there stop having sex with him and sucking his d*ck, to save yourself the ghosting that is likely to soon follow once he's through with you.
That was years ago, but still I can't believe I didn't see it right then and there and just stop seeing him right then.
Sounds horrible he could at least dropped you off at the door
Did humor help?
Seriously that’s f****d up. Sorry that happen
Well that is what I am thinking...I mean it was bloody raining.
Its all good now because its so far in the past, but still makes me kind of mad to think about it.
There’s an important lesson: watch out for red flags and selfish behavior. It won’t get better.
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Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven. – Satan and TwilightPrincess
But when your 'boyfriend' takes you to the store in the rain, parks out in the parking lot not even near the door at all...and sends you in alone to go buy the condoms. Maybe end it right there stop having sex with him and sucking his d*ck, to save yourself the ghosting that is likely to soon follow once he's through with you.
That was years ago, but still I can't believe I didn't see it right then and there and just stop seeing him right then.
Sounds horrible he could at least dropped you off at the door
Did humor help?
Seriously that’s f****d up. Sorry that happen
Well that is what I am thinking...I mean it was bloody raining.
Its all good now because its so far in the past, but still makes me kind of mad to think about it.
There’s an important lesson: watch out for red flags and selfish behavior. It won’t get better.
I hate red flags. It’s so general.
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There is no place for me in the world. I'm going into the wilderness, probably to die
In my life experiences most people are selfish and only out to get what they want.
The few who aren’t selfish get abused by the rest as it’s in our nature to want to help and please others.
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There is no place for me in the world. I'm going into the wilderness, probably to die
But when your 'boyfriend' takes you to the store in the rain, parks out in the parking lot not even near the door at all...and sends you in alone to go buy the condoms. Maybe end it right there stop having sex with him and sucking his d*ck, to save yourself the ghosting that is likely to soon follow once he's through with you.
That was years ago, but still I can't believe I didn't see it right then and there and just stop seeing him right then.
Sounds horrible he could at least dropped you off at the door
Did humor help?
Seriously that’s f****d up. Sorry that happen
Well that is what I am thinking...I mean it was bloody raining.
Its all good now because its so far in the past, but still makes me kind of mad to think about it.
There’s an important lesson: watch out for red flags and selfish behavior. It won’t get better.
I hate red flags. It’s so general.
I think that it should be clear by the current context that I’m referring to specific behaviors.
It would be hard to write an all-inclusive list.
Don’t yell at me.
Don’t swear at me.
Don’t be manipulative.
Don’t be pushy.
Don’t be controlling.
That sort of stuff.
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Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven. – Satan and TwilightPrincess
I’ve seen the following as red flags
Doesn’t have a good job
Lives with family
Is fat
Etc
It’s basicaly just what some people don’t like but they call it red flags to pretreat universal of it.
Your list could be sumed up as don’t be a a****le
Except yelling people yell at each other when fighting both sides, couples will fight. Same for swearing
What I don’t like is when someone’s in bad mood or tired and yells at me for something unrelated.
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There is no place for me in the world. I'm going into the wilderness, probably to die
The_Face_of_Boo
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Joined: 16 Jun 2010
Age: 41
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 32,886
Location: Beirut, Lebanon.
But when your 'boyfriend' takes you to the store in the rain, parks out in the parking lot not even near the door at all...and sends you in alone to go buy the condoms. Maybe end it right there stop having sex with him and sucking his d*ck, to save yourself the ghosting that is likely to soon follow once he's through with you.
That was years ago, but still I can't believe I didn't see it right then and there and just stop seeing him right then.
He made you wet.
Literally.
Doesn’t have a good job
Lives with family
Is fat
Etc
It’s basicaly just what some people don’t like but they call it red flags to pretreat universal of it.
Your list could be sumed up as don’t be a a****le
Except yelling people yell at each other when fighting both sides, couples will fight. Same for swearing
What I don’t like is when someone’s in bad mood or tired and yells at me for something unrelated.
I don’t yell very often. I’d have to have a very good reason to.
Some couples yell when they fight all the time, but I’m not into that.
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Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven. – Satan and TwilightPrincess
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