Building the autistic community?
Depends you mean by "high functioning."
Obviously, people who can't communicate at all can't participate in a community of any kind.
But, here on Wrong Planet and other autistic online forums, there are at least a few people who can't talk but can type. (Example: Ezra here on WP.) Also here on WP, there are quite a few people who have identified themselves as being Level 2.
Also, in one of the support groups I attend, there's at least one person with mild intellectual disability. (He often mentions being a participant in the "Special Olympics," which are for intellectually disabled people.)
There's more that the autistic community can and should do in order to be more inclusive of relatively severely disabled autistic people -- although there are, unfortunately, limits to how far we can go in that regard.
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I'm not disagreeing with you, just pointing out that you referred to this as an "autistic community", I think what you mean is you are trying to create an "Aspergers" community.
Some years ago I met a fairly wealthy business owner who an his own IT company. As we talked he revealed he had Aspergers (there was a couple of things he was self-conscious about and thought he should explain to me).
Like you he had plans to create a community of adults but he was very particular he wanted a network of "successful" professionals with Aspergers. His idea actually had merit.
I didn't keep in touch despite accepting his facebook friendship, main problem I had was an attitude that people like him didn't want to have anything to do with lower functioning people on the spectrum as if they don't matter. I think part of the issue was he lacked a filter for politeness/refinement but he may have developed values (growing up) that autism was associated with not progressing. As I said he was quite wealthy and successful so I had nothing but respect for his tenacity and hard work. But lets be fair, he demonstrates better than anyone that there are two autistic communities in the world.
- Folks who live with dependents
- Folks who are independent
No, certainly NOT that narrow. I myself don't quite fit the DSM IV definition of "Asperger's disorder." (I was developmentally delayed, including speech delay.)
EDIT: I consider this misunderstanding between us to be a derailment of this thread. If you still want to claim that the adult autistic community is an Aspie-only community, or that I'm trying to build an Aspie-only community, please do so in one of the threads linked below, rather than here in this thread.
I just now created the separate thread The autistic community and the autism parents' community, and I've replied to the remainder of your post here in that thread.
Alternatively, if you wish to argue a separation between "Aspergers" and "autism," perhaps we can have that discussion in "Autism" definition wars thread.
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Actually how am I derailing this thread? we are talking about "building" the autistic community
I correctly pointed out that you are giving people the impression there is one autistic community when infact you contradicted yourself saying that there are exclusion criteria against children, low-moderate functioning autistic people and their parents.
That means you are creating divisions....
Not just you, but our (your and my) misunderstanding is/was derailing this thread.
If you don't understand why, please just humor me. I'm the O.P. and I said so. See also my more substantive reply here, in the other thread.
Everyone, please don't reply to this message here in this thread. Please reply only to my more substantive reply here, in the other thread. Feel free to continue any meta-discussion there too, in the other thread. Just not here in this thread, please.
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Very good observation ... ! And agrees with no phones at table idea...
But a entire ggeneration has been spoon fed internet access ?
Need something ageeable . Like a large screen monitor . And 1 moderatoe of the meering having control . Verbal discussion based on what the entire group is reading .
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My idea is to include some sort of activity with the meeting. My preference would be walking in the woods. I'm sure someone can think of some indoor activities too. My aspie teen daughter attends a facilitated meeting and the leader uses this approach and encourages the group to meet for other activities too.
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Actually would like this based in a real life world. Activities that might transcend .. levels of the spectrum people were on ...... this could go onto several levels , and if peoples found outside commonalities .. so be it .
If sharing , fits , so be i
t .. but reponsible , thinking hfa peoples . Might try to oversee , for potential problems , depending on their own level of social skills and empathy towards others in the group .And endurance levels regarding these type of interactions
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A more recent thread on this same topic was started here: building a real life ASD community, in the "General Autism Discussion " sub-forum.
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Other organizations within the Autistic Community include the Autistic Self Advocacy Network (US), Autistics United Canada (Canada), Autscape (UK), European Council of Autistic People (European Union), Autistic Pride Alliance (International), Autminds (Netherlands), Autwave (Finland), Jasna Strona Spektrum (Poland), etc. All of these organizations are run by autistic adults, and they all have various links between them.
Another good resource for learning about the history of the Autistic Community is the online e-book "Autistic Community and the Neurodiversity Movement": https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/ ... -13-8437-0
Depending on where in the world you live, you may have a local group run by autistic adults, which forms a part of the Autistic Community.
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I'd argue the main reason is simply because these movements are largely against many of the things that make social groups function.
I.e. most social groups revolve around social competition and common purpose.
To have this you need social hierarchy. Most of these groups are against the concept for obvious reason.
Without hierarchy it is bloody hard to do anything of value. Want to find a date? It largely function of hierarchical arrangements. Want to find employment, well you have to learn to compete.What to have a group that can produce anything, leadership is required.
And I get this just sounds like ramblings around a particularly narrow view of human behavior, but unfortunately it is not.
For an autistic community to function it needs to embrace the idea that social communities are based on a collection of hierarchies. We're taught that these hierarchies are arbitrary and are simply bad for us, but the opposite is scientifically proven to be true.
But again I'm whizzing into the wind. The science that we need to be made aware of is considered taboo, or worst yet seen as something too complex for us to understand.
The key is to appreciate that by engaging in communities/hierarchies your life will improve. You can get better employment, you can actually have access to sexual relationships, and most magically your special interests can be enhanced. Either by finding like minded people, or by simply having better resources to explore your interests.
The key to understanding hierarchy is that it isn't near as rigid or as vertical as it appears. The science is relatively clear your life will flounder without hierarchy and almost anyone that thrives, thrives within it.
Many autistic groups have hierarchies. For example:
Autscape has a Board of Directors, an Organising Committee, and several Sub-committees:
http://www.autscape.org/
The European Council of Autistic People has an Executive Board:
https://eucap.eu/executive-board/
Autistic UK has a Board of Directors:
https://autisticuk.org/
Aucademy have a hierarchy:
https://aucademy.co.uk/
Reframing Autism have a hierarchy:
https://www.reframingautism.com.au/about-us/
The Autistic Self Advocacy Network have a hierarchy:
https://autisticadvocacy.org/about-asan/leadership/
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AUTSCAPE -- Autistic-run conference and retreat in the UK
http://www.autscape.org/
Many autistic groups have hierarchies. For example:
Autscape has a Board of Directors, an Organising Committee, and several Sub-committees:
http://www.autscape.org/
The European Council of Autistic People has an Executive Board:
https://eucap.eu/executive-board/
Autistic UK has a Board of Directors:
https://autisticuk.org/
Aucademy have a hierarchy:
https://aucademy.co.uk/
Reframing Autism have a hierarchy:
https://www.reframingautism.com.au/about-us/
The Autistic Self Advocacy Network have a hierarchy:
https://autisticadvocacy.org/about-asan/leadership/
I didn't mean at an administrative level I meant on a social level.
nts naturally align themselves in social hierarchies through body language.
It's the process of creating spontaneous alignments that is the issue.
Since we are oblivious to body language it'd have to be done in a more literal way. Which would require some sort of task/goal that would give people places/positions within a social structure.
Again NTS do it so easily they don't even notice, we are oblivious and it is a major major issue.
To contribute to a group/community members have to take on roles, and people have to be motivated to perform in those roles to create a structure that can hoist a community.
When aspie groups are created they unironically emulate the most flimsy of nt styled social groups. We're emulating something we can't do. While paradoxically avoiding the more obvious easy to replicate structures like those found in the military/competitive sports/work environments.
I.e. we seek out groups for non conforming people and wonder why it fails. NT non conforming groups generally revolve around a whole lot of subconscious politicking and competitiveness. I.e. imagine a community of hipster artists all trying to out do eachother. It works because they are so driven by ego, and an unwritten rule that the most successful members of the community are those who can stay inches ahead of the trends.
For aspie groups to work they need to have a strong value of conforming to group needs. The aspie conformists generally avoid aspie groups and end up emulating nts. Most of the people seeking out other aspies are driven to avoid conformity.
The trick is to appreciate that conformity doesn't mean sacrificing your special interests. Ideally you need a broad enough hierarchy that multiple interests can fit under the same roof.
yes, the social hierarchy, our mammalian inheritance. law of the jungle. competition. yes, i get all that. my cognitive process understand. my nervous system on the other hand....
This whole problem reminds me of the metaphor of somebody with a jetpack carefree rising fast up the mountain ahead of another also climbing the mountain, with heavy backpack, maybe even injured limbs. toiling away.
life isn't fair. some of us don't have that jetpack, asd is a real neurological problem. there no level playing field. if was so simple, the statistics wouldn't so dismal. we just happen to be start off with one of most disadvantaged positions to play these kinda games in the social arena. is it any wonder so many of us are demoralized? its hard enough for nts, so its EXTRA hard for us.
No to make excuses, but the problem goes deeper then a mere conscious, cerebral analysis of the situation. the problem is psycho-biological, specifically to do with the limbic system. Thats not something that can just be patched up or glossed over, with a' community support group' or other such superficial remedies or plans.
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It's the process of creating spontaneous alignments that is the issue.
Since we are oblivious to body language it'd have to be done in a more literal way. Which would require some sort of task/goal that would give people places/positions within a social structure.
Again NTS do it so easily they don't even notice, we are oblivious and it is a major major issue.
To contribute to a group/community members have to take on roles, and people have to be motivated to perform in those roles to create a structure that can hoist a community.
This is a very interesting point. The question is how to do this in a way that is both workable (for autistic people) and enjoyable.
Nobody wants something too much like a "work environment," or like "military" discipline, in their spare time. A social activity needs to be enjoyable and not too high-pressure.
But it's certainly helpful for a group to be focused on goals of some kind, and to show appreciation to members who help advance the goals.
I've actually had some good experiences (as well as some bad experiences too) with groups of nonconforming people. My earliest good group experience was with a gay rights group back in the late 1970's (I'm bisexual; the acronyms "LGBT" and "LGBTQ+" had not yet been coined), long before the movement made much progress. I won respect in the group by writing letters that were published in the campus newspaper.
I've never been involved in a group of artists, hipster or otherwise.
There are many different kinds and degrees of "conformity," some much more onerous than others. Every group (including even this forum) has some norms, stated or unstated, to which members must conform. The problem, for many of us, is not the mere existence of norms, but that many NT-dominated groups have specific kinds of norms (often unstated) that are intrinsically difficult for many autistic people. So a group can have its own norms while at the same time being a haven from pressure to pretend to be NT.
Or a collection of small groups which are each devoted to specific special interests.
Anyhow, a fear of "sacrificing your special interests" is by no means the sole issue that many of us have with "conformity." Many of us, for example, have intrinsic difficulties with various NT conversational norms, especially in informal group conversations.
We do need structure and focus. We should think about what kinds of structures would work best for groups of autistic people.
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It's the process of creating spontaneous alignments that is the issue.
Since we are oblivious to body language it'd have to be done in a more literal way. Which would require some sort of task/goal that would give people places/positions within a social structure.
Again NTS do it so easily they don't even notice, we are oblivious and it is a major major issue.
To contribute to a group/community members have to take on roles, and people have to be motivated to perform in those roles to create a structure that can hoist a community.
This is a very interesting point. The question is how to do this in a way that is both workable (for autistic people) and enjoyable.
Nobody wants something too much like a "work environment," or like "military" discipline, in their spare time. A social activity needs to be enjoyable and not too high-pressure.
But it's certainly helpful for a group to be focused on goals of some kind, and to show appreciation to members who help advance the goals.
I've actually had some good experiences (as well as some bad experiences too) with groups of nonconforming people. My earliest good group experience was with a gay rights group back in the late 1970's (I'm bisexual; the acronyms "LGBT" and "LGBTQ+" had not yet been coined), long before the movement made much progress. I won respect in the group by writing letters that were published in the campus newspaper.
I've never been involved in a group of artists, hipster or otherwise.
There are many different kinds and degrees of "conformity," some much more onerous than others. Every group (including even this forum) has some norms, stated or unstated, to which members must conform. The problem, for many of us, is not the mere existence of norms, but that many NT-dominated groups have specific kinds of norms (often unstated) that are intrinsically difficult for many autistic people. So a group can have its own norms while at the same time being a haven from pressure to pretend to be NT.
Or a collection of small groups which are each devoted to specific special interests.
Anyhow, a fear of "sacrificing your special interests" is by no means the sole issue that many of us have with "conformity." Many of us, for example, have intrinsic difficulties with various NT conversational norms, especially in informal group conversations.
We do need structure and focus. We should think about what kinds of structures would work best for groups of autistic people.
It’s not really clear what you’re trying to achieve?
The truth is there is no unified autistic community any more than a unified NT community.
We already have clusters of autistic online mini communities based upon how those people feel about their autism.
On the one side we have advocate Nick Walker who believes anyone who discusses treating autism should be prosecuted for a hate crime who would gravitate towards ASAN.
On the other we have someone like Jonathan Mitchell that sees his autism as a disease and seeks a cure, that would probably gravitate towards the pro cure National Council on Severe Autism.
On one hand you have hf aspies that may want to "celebrate their differences”, on the other you have the parents & carers of those with level 3 autism. Do you think really these parents & carers are going to be "celebrating" the severe life limiting disability effecting their adult child?
So how do you plan to bridge these obvious divides?
Its no secret that you are an anti-cure advocate which is fine since your entitled to your views, but we already have ASAN for that.
Seems like you want to create an ASAN 2 duplicate? What is that really going to achieve? Why not simply join ASAN leadership?
Given the nature of ASD anything outside an online community would be difficult too, the closest we have to that at the moment allowing all views is WP which is a good popular site.
Seems like your simply attempting to create duplicates of what exists already
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